BamyD

Tech/Crypto Enthusiast. Project and Product Manager. Follower of Christ.

[Slim @onu_slim]

This year I witnessed something that has refused to leave my mind.

A man I know in Abuja, had the biggest opportunity of his career. A real, life changing deal. The kind that can move you and your family into a new chapter forever. He prepared for weeks. Studied every detail my team and I even assisted him to put some structures in place. He rehearsed every answer. He was ready.

Then the morning of the meeting…..everything fell apart.

His fiancée started a fight.
Something small. Something that could have waited.
But it did not.

Texts. Long calls. Voice notes. Accusations. Tears.
Threats to leave. Demands for attention.
Emotional warfare on the one morning he desperately needed peace.

He kept saying, “Please. I have a very important meeting. Let me handle this when I get back”.

It did not stop.

By the time he walked into the boardroom, he was already finished.

He was late, his eyes were tired, mind scattered and a heavy heart.
He called me, I was like “guy how far, goodnews?”

He said “Slim I need your help, I am in trouble”
My man couldn’t even put himself together….. lover boy.

He tried to speak but the confidence was gone.
He forgot things he knew by heart.
He was not the man they believed in.
He was simply a man trying to hold himself together.

And right there…. the deal slipped away.

Afterwards he called. I went to the venue. He sat in silence afterwards. Phone still buzzing. But he just stared at it. No anger. No reaction. Just that empty look people get when they finally realize how expensive emotional chaos can be.

Not expensive in money.
Expensive in destiny.

Sometimes the biggest threat to your future is not the competition.
It is the constant storm in your personal life.

Peace is not luxury.
Peace is focus.
Peace is clarity.
Peace is survival.

He is going into 2026 starting from zero again. Not because he was lazy. Not because he was unprepared.

But because the one person who should have protected his focus….. became the reason he lost it.

Love should steady you.
Not drain you.
Not shake your mind before the moment that matters most.

Choose partners who understand timing.
Choose partners who respect your work.
Choose partners who do not pick the worst possible moment to pull you into emotional chaos.

Because sometimes…. one argument at the wrong time
Can cost you the opportunity you waited your whole life to meet.

[BamyD @Bamydeeee]

@MasculineSage What if her rebelliousness was that she was asked to quite you.

[BamyD @Bamydeeee]

@starboy_abefe This sounds like the fabu some of us used to tell the rest of us back then in primary school.

[BamyD @Bamydeeee]

@Fact If one smiles too much as a man, people will start questioning if one is mentally stable.

[BamyD @Bamydeeee]

Open PhD/MSc Positions at the University of Calgary, Canada https://t.co/HJ1EpwveLb via @https://twitter.com/researchersjob

[Comr. Okoye Kenechi @dgoodcomrade]

Pastor goes back to Heaven after delivering the word of God.

"3rd of October" "Nasarawa" "Tiwa" "Opay" "Truecaller" "Rufai" "Mapoly" "Gen Z" "Fairmoney" "Shank" "NLC and TUC" "Remi Tinubu" "Nedu" "Dangote" "Mercy" "CONGRATULATIONS ILEBAYE" "Taiwo Oyedele" "Odumodu" #ApologyNotAccepted

[Taiyelolu @taiyelolu__]

Watch & Share to Save life

Don’t skip pls

Opay Fatima ASUU Alexis Mac Allister Peter Obi Remi Tinubu Nancy Maldonado Nedu Federal Government NLC and TUC 3rd of October Arise TV Odumodu BUA Cement Boniface Onanuga Nasty C hotpeniz Aso Rock Mbappe Aguero Gerrard Certificate UCL

[Adé @jexmotion]

Let me see people with good heart
Drop a like❤️ if it touched you
#BLACKPINK #วอลเลย์บอลหญิง #الاعتداء_الهمجي #السائح_الكويتي #fixed #RussiaIsCollapsing #AsiaCupFinal #HalaMadrid #விநாயகர்_சதுர்த்தி #BLACKPINKinSEOUL_FINALE

[MC Miti @mcmiti_]

This is what every Nigerian should do right now.

#PEPTJudgement Protest Supreme Court Atiku #hushpuppi

[33 Strategies of War @33StrategiesBot]

Anger and impatience will draw you into rash actions that will cut off your options.

[Omobablom🇳🇬 @bablom25]

Omooo
Man U nearly killed one of their fans yesterday with their style of play 😔
Chelsea 2 Lauren James Spain Russo #FIFAWWC    Seyi Tolani Bailey Greenwood David Beckham Westham #NyashFestival Dorathy Richarlison Isak Toone Barca

[Bufa @davisagbor]

Wow! Dog attend the owners funeral. How emotional!

Spain Lauren James Wike God Save The King Chelsea 2 Seyi Rihanna Dorothy

[Oyo Affairs @Oyoaffairs]

Oyo State welcomes Green Africa Airways' first flight at Alakia Airport.

You can now take a flight from Lagos to Ibadan starting from N6,500.

[Kanu Nwankwo @papilokanu]

KAN U BELIEVE IT 💪😂 A champion always A champion I thank God ✅ A winner always A winner you can’t take it away Gods Grace 🙏 thanks @championsleague for posting this 😂 many will not know the feelings #legend @fifa @uefa_official #thankgod #respect #positivevibesonly @Arsenal

[UrbanSam @Iamsamdan]

Cheating is too stressful guys. Just remain faithful, but some of una no go hear. Now, see wahala. 😲🤣

He's 30 USDT Jagun Jagun PEPT Judgement Blessing CEO Niger Junta

[AdisaOlashile @adisaolashile]

I have been making art with my phone since 2016 but now I want to monetize my posts on X app but I’m not eligible coz I don’t have 15M impressions. My X community, can you guys make that happen for me with this post ? ❤️

[AmeboXpress @Amebo_Xpress]

How did he do this, at this young age🤔

ElClasico | Osimhen | Ighalo | Mudryk | #PeterObiOnParallelFacts

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

I hate when stay at home moms are outrightly disrespected and their effort talked down. Making money is not all there is to a home. The time spent with family are the pillars that sustains a home. Once you're home, you should make your presence felt.

The time he used making noise and recording it, he could have made the bed and put his child to sleep. This is why I always advocate marrying people with family values because any sensible person should be looking forward to home and not using work as excuse to shy away from home and family time.