Emotional AFFAIRS and cyber-affairs destroy marriages just like physical affairs do. They all are cheating. So be careful when getting close to someone of the opposite sex who's not your mate, because affairs most always start with "We're just friends."
Don't hide friendships with the opposite sex from your spouse. Openness and honestly are a MUST in your marriage.
@theMurphy_web3@Priceless_MCI You hit the bulls eye. He is somehow useless and useful. Like you say “best worst footballer”
I wondered what Pep saw in him….
Telling your spouse where you are, who you are with and when you will be home, is NOT called being controlled.
It's called showing respect ... AND it's what healthy marriages do.
If you are married and want to stay faithful, please stay far away from ...
1 - Your ex or exes.
2 - Anyone you have been intimate with in the past.
3 - Anyone who likes you or is crushing on you.
4 - Anyone you are crushing on or who is your spec.
5 - Anyone who has attempted or is attempting to sleep with you.
6 - Anyone who flirts with you, whether playfully or seriously.
7 - Anyone you wouldn't feel comfortable talking to in front of your spouse.
8 - Anyone you find yourself hiding chats, calls, or meetings with.
9 -Anyone you daydream about romantically or sexually. You shouldn't be daydreaming about anyone apart from your spouse in the first place
10 - Anyone who tries to convince you that your marriage is a mistake.
11 - Anyone you have to lie to your spouse about seeing or talking to.
12 - Anyone who makes you compare them to your spouse in a "better" way.
13 - Anyone you have had emotional or sexual tension with before.
14 -Anyone who uses physical touch as a way of connecting with you.
15 -Anyone you would be embarrassed to introduce to your spouse because of the nature of your connection.
Faithfulness is not just about avoiding the act of cheating; it is about guarding your heart long before you are ever tempted.
The boundaries you set today are the walls that protect your marriage tomorrow.
Cheating does not start in the bedroom; it starts in the heart.
Protect your heart, and you will protect your marriage.