I see I've picked up a couple followers based on @scretladyspider's lovely and generous recommendation, so, since I'm about to head to bed, here's the article I wrote regarding my own realization that aseuxality and kink aren't as opposite as they seem:
https://t.co/0EHdDnmj93
@suchnerve Iβve started pointing out that letting men off the hook because they βcanβtβ do better is suuuper sexist, because [pat them on the head] boys can do anything girls can do pumpkin, so Iβd better hold them accountable instead
Commanding the screen while squaring up against the likes of Ed Harris and a murderers row of prime character actors, one of the many great feats in an illustrious career.
RIP Tony Todd
I say this a lot, I'll say it again. A gun is not a talisman. It is a perishable skill set, a level of commitment that more or less is practically a lifestyle. Guns may not be for you and that's okay. If you're serious, take a sobering inventory of your bandwidth for this.
A message made in collaboration with Yellow Peril Tactical: We have been saying this for a long time, but itβs worth saying again as many reflexively move toward firearm ownership in uncertain and dangerous times:
A gun is not a talisman that wards off evil.
If I leave this site let my last post be this call on Art Bellβs vampire line of a guy claiming he was turned into a vampire by gay turn of the century baseball players.
A friendly message for all of the angry lesbians targeting bi women, and the people (inexplicably) blaming Palestinians and trans people for the election.
can't happen bc in order to be this obsessed with clothing you have to give up the idea that it's gay or feminine for a man to be into clothes. the narrow definition of masculinity you've set up for yourselves prevents you from learning about interesting things
This is something which stuck with me since election night. Electoral politics and the finger pointing that comes with it will not saved us from white supremacy.
People, united in a common cause, united in a spirit of community care, will.
NEW for ALL subscribers:
Sex strikes in the Trump era, & what to do instead
There's a key point that a lot of 'sex strike' discourse leaves out, so here's my thoughts on it + how to radically change yr sex life if pregnancy sounds terrifying right now
(Link in follow-up tweet!)