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To me it sounds infantile when adults talk about spirits, angels, demons and miracles.
Whilst some Faiths carry some meaningful morals, reality offers so much beauty; why cling to divisive, often misogynistic myths when we could be embracing reason, curiosity, & shared humanity?
Most modern women will follow this path:
-Be a total whore in her 20s, get tattoos, travel and party.
-At 29, become very religious, meet a rich simp that ignores her past, make him wait for sex, marry him
-By 35 have your 3 kids out of the way.
-At 38, get bored of him, take half his shit, the house, and the kids, and be a total whore again.
-By 40, become a life coach, and teach other women how to live life.
*By these two immutable things — His oath and His promise, it is impossible for God to lie. He has promised — Saying, Surely blessing I will bless you, and multiplying I will multiply you. So shall it be for you and yours today forward. Amen.*
*Wishing you a blessed new month.
The inevitable conclusion of every conscious Nigerian desirous of change, is that it can only be achieved through a revolution, and the only conversation we should be having, ought to be about the character of the revolution we seek, and the methodologies of its prosecution..🇳🇬🤔
We talk about safety in terms of physical skin, but we never talk about the emotional mutilation of being born male.
The world doesn’t just expect a man to be a shield, it expects him to be a void. From age five, he is taught to kill the parts of himself that make him human. Every time he’s told "don't cry," a nerve ending is severed. By twenty-five, he’s an emotional amputee, and we wonder why he’s "cold."
Here is the truth nobody wants to post: A man’s greatest fear isn't always death; it’s being a burden. He lives in a state of permanent performance. If he’s sick, he hides it. If he’s terrified, he cracks a joke. He knows that the moment he shows a crack in the armor, the people he loves won't just be disappointed, they’ll be scared. He is the only person in the room not allowed to have a bad day because everyone else’s stability is built on his silence.
He walks into a room and is instantly profiled as a threat, but he’s actually the most vulnerable person there because he has zero social safety net. If a woman falls, there are arms to catch her. If a man falls, people step over him to see who’s next in line for his job.
he is surviving the slow, quiet death of his own identity to make sure everyone else feels secure. He is a ghost living in a machine built to harvest his labor until he breaks.
And when he finally breaks? We replace him.
I’ve spent years studying systems, and the most dangerous virus is a "Stupid Person." As Carlo Cipolla proved, these people damage everyone around them without gaining a single thing for themselves.
It’s pure, senseless destruction.
We are watching global systems collapse, not from war, but from the sheer weight of people in power making decisions that benefit absolutely no one but themselves.
Common sense has become a luxury item, and Einstein was right to be terrified of how infinite this darkness is.
There is a silent trauma in working yourself to the bone, only to have your efforts erased by someone else’s incompetence. You aren't "failing", you’re being suffocated by a world that has traded wisdom for ego.
The scariest part? They don’t even know they’re doing it.
10 Hard Truths
Parents Must Tell Their Daughters - Even If It Hûrts to Hear
1️⃣THE WORLD DOESN'T CARE ABOUT YOUR TEARS, ONLY YOUR RESULTS. DON'T PLAY VICTIM ALWAYS.
2️⃣TELL HER THÀT A MAN IS NOT A PLAN, BUILD YOUR OWN.
Teach her skills, money habits, and contentment.
3️⃣ NOT EVERYONE WHO CALLS YOU "BESTIE" IS YOUR FRIEND.
4️⃣IF YOU DON'T RESPECT YOURSELF, NO ONE ELSE WILL.
5️⃣BEAUTY FADES, VALUE LASTS.
Looks can get attention. Value keeps opportunities.
7️⃣. YOU CANNOT LIVE YOURSELF WITHOUT HUMBLENESS. whatever you are or become, A man is the HEAD.
6️⃣LIFE WILL NOT HAND YOU RESPECT, YOU MUST EARN IT.
Entitlement will embarrass her.
8️⃣LOVE IS NOT BLIND, YOU JUST IGNORE RED FLAGS.
9️⃣YOU CAN BE ANYTHING, BUT NOT WITHOUT DISCIPLINE.
🔟THE WORLD WILL TREAT YOU HOW YOU LET IT. Dress how you want to be addressed.
Do you know that a man is the only mammal who can never be 100% sure his child is his?
A woman knows the baby is hers; it came out of her. A man has to take it on Faith.
This creates a deep, evolutionary anxiety called "Paternity Uncertainty.''
It is why men are so protective over their partners. It is why female infidelity hurts men differently than male infidelity hurts women.
For a woman, cheating is a betrayal of love. For a man, cheating is a betrayal of his legacy, tricking him into spending his life and resources raising another man's DNA. It is the ultimate biological theft.
Paternity fraud should be illegal and should be punishable by the law