Heather Hetchler

Stepfamily Expert I Coaching women in stepfamilies to find peace and transform their experience. Tweets and threads about co-parenting and stepfamily life.

[Heather Hetchler @CafeSmom]

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You don’t have to match the emotions of people at the holidays https://t.co/J8XNJEFpO0 via @cafesmom

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Midlife Holidays: You Can’t Pour From an Empty Cup https://t.co/FToQ4FwXsK via @cafesmom

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Disarming "Dis"missiles: Dismissing Comments Don https://t.co/LtkJ0qoqET

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That face you make when you go to hug a relative hello or goodbye and they go in for a kiss. Hard pass for me regardless of who it is! Only person I'm lip kissing is my spouse. #Holidayseason #Holidayswiththefamily #Homefortheholidaysandintherapythenextweek

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When I started on Twitter back in 2009 it was an amazing place to connect and have authentic conversations. I've been quiet now for a few years. Okay, whose active on here from days gone by? Wondering if I want to start up with Twitter again? Thoughts?

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When Family Hurts: Loving Without Losing Yourself https://t.co/vZ65mPOMLz encouragement when family isn't what they should be for you.

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The end of an era. I started on Twitter/X nearly 15 years ago ministering to stepmoms via my site CafeSmom. That sight is no more. DM me if you want the long story... it involves a lost wallet and Godaddy selling my domain. Short story... my reach has grown. My site name changed

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When Family Hurts: Loving Without Losing Yourself https://t.co/vZ65mPOMLz encouragement when family isn't what they should be for you.

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@SouthwestAir! Flying through MSP yesterday, we had the pleasure of boarding with Ellison! Get him a podcast and hire him for voiceovers - he is amazing!!! I can hear it now "Boarding Now" with Ellison sharing all the travel tips and destinations @SouthwestAir offers!

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The Power of Connecting: Find Solace in Shared Stories https://t.co/decPSRUJwe via @cafesmom

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@Matt_Pinner Yes, seeing the pattern producing the insight and answer.

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Stop Ruminating! The Power of Sift & Shift Time with God - How To! https://t.co/sigzmsGaxm via @YouTube

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Disarming "Dis"missiles: Dismissing Comments.... https://t.co/LtkJ0qnSPl

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If you get a chance to see @taylorswift13 ERAs Tour - GO! What a woman. What a songwriter. What an epic 3 hour journey. So well done. The music. The dancers. The entire show! We had a hot day in Zurich but oh my, so worth it! To see and experience the JOY in the stadium is a gift

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Huge shout out to @Condor and @JetBlue! Thanks for the amazing flights to and from Zurich for the ERAs tour. One in my travel party wasn't feeling the best after being in the sun for 12 hours and your crew took extra special care! Thank you. Will be flying you again!

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It's been a long time Twitter (I mean X), any of my friends still active out there? Comment, send me a DM.. love to know how you are liking and using this platform. #longtimetwitteruser #community #missyou

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@WriterlyTweets Unpacking life dream by dream.

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If you aren’t familiar with what happened to Laura Logan while on assignment in Egypt, you should be.

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You won't understand why another thinks or feels the way they do. You aren't them.

Everyone has the right to feel what they feel.
Everyone has the responsibility to act with kindness, compassion and respect.

Thoughts?

[Heather Hetchler @CafeSmom]

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