Si la amas, no la destruyas. Recuerda cómo lucía la primera vez que la viste: radiante, hermosa y feliz. Mantenla así, no la apagues. Si la amas, mantenla en su belleza, en su bravura. Ella ha vencido sus miedos e inseguridades para estar contigo; sé digno de ese honor.
Trauma doesn't make people stronger. it damages their nervous system. it hijacks their digestive track. it keeps the person in a constant loop of hypervigilance. To tell someone they are stronger because of trauma is to deny what it cost them to survive it.
my mom once told me "accountability will always feel like an attack when you are not ready to acknowledge how your behavior harms others" and that shit is real
one thing i genuinely absolutely cannot stand is an inconsiderate person like how could you not care about how the outcome of your actions could affect someone like pls think before you act it's not hard