Tom Holland sharing a quote that said “if you have a problem with me, text me, and if you don’t have my number, you don’t know me well enough to have a problem with me” really stuck with me
normalize saying “unfortunately you’re no longer a safe person for me and I refuse to continually sacrifice my nervous system to make you feel comfortable”
Every continent before civilization, before every race even met each other, collectively took away women's rights. Chose their arranged marriages for them, restricted their sexuality to virginity until marriage.
There were no Zoom calls. No internet. How did 6 different races on 6 different continents all come to the SAME conclusion about women?
White, Black, Asian, Latino, Indian, Arab - ALL practiced the same thing and you are fucking telling me there isn't a solid reason behind it?
Since women were allowed to choose their own partners, look at the rate of single motherhood? From 5% to 40%+ in one generation.
Since women were allowed to not be virgins, look at the rate of prostitution, OnlyFans, abortion? Millions of abortions a year.
The best generation of kids, the best schools, the safest streets, the strongest society and civilization was when your rights were restricted.
You think your great-great-grandfather was dumb? The man who built a house with no tools, fought lions, survived wars - you think HE was dumb and you are smart because you have TikTok?
They restricted you because they LEARNED. Every man learned that if you give a woman unlimited sexual freedom, society collapses. Family collapses. Kids suffer.
You call it oppression. They called it order. And their order worked for 5000 years.
Your freedom hasn't worked for 50.
Most men aren’t afraid of being alone anymore. They’re starting to realize that being single can be more peaceful, cheaper and less stressful than being in the wrong relationship.
Why do I always have to be the understanding one? Why am I always expected to be patient, to give grace and to see things from everyone else’s perspective, while no one stops to see mine? Sometimes I don’t need another reason or explanation. Sometimes I just want someone to meet me with the same understanding I’ve always given them.