As life takes shape and teaches you your own lessons, I end up in this situation where I don’t have the fairy tale but in all this I am grateful for who I am today...
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We women live a terrifying double life. A mother will look at her teenage son with absolute, boundless empathy. She will hold him when he cries, tell him his feelings matter, and pray to God that he finds a woman who loves him for his pure heart, not his wallet.
But that exact same woman will turn around and look at her husband, who is literally someone else’s grown son and treat him like a malfunctioning piece of farm equipment if he loses his job or shows a moment of emotional fragility. We completely compartmentalize the fact that the men we drain, stress out, and demand traditional protection from were once little boys who were promised that their hearts mattered.
Look at the advice mothers pass down. It is pure, unfiltered hypocrisy.
We sit our daughters down and say: "Never settle. Make sure he is a provider. If he is struggling financially, do not build him up, leave him. You deserve a King." But if a mother catches wind that her son's girlfriend is treating him that way? If her son loses his job and his girlfriend packs her bags? That mother will lose her mind. She will call the girlfriend a gold-digger. She will call her toxic.
We are actively raising our daughters to become the exact type of women we pray our sons never meet.
Memo to all Arsenal fans, worldwide: we’re on the cusp of historic greatness. It’s time to park all our doubts, fears, concerns and critiques, and get 💯 behind the team until the end of the season. Let our rivals hate us - as they are - but let’s stay rock solid in our support.
Thought Kai Havertz scoring would be the best thing I watch tonight but here’s John Terry recording himself thinking Chelsea will score only for Kai to win it. In his full Chelsea tracksuit ahaahhahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahah
This is how to successfully write a VISION BOARD
1. Have a plan( what do u want the year to look like)
2. Divide your vision board into categories like ( academics, finance, health ETC) this way ur transforming your whole life not just some parts
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I'm obsessed with cognitive biases.
A "cognitive bias" is a systematic error in thinking that destroys decision-making.
11 most powerful (and dangerous) cognitive biases I've found: 🧵
1. Survivorship Bias:
No be Small thing this Arsenal vs Wolves match nearly wan cause for the World this night. Hatewatch nearly successful for the Witches 😩😂
Arsenal 2-1 Wolves highlights
#arsenal#ARSWOL#toluarokodare