Ange is right, Tottenham aren't a big club. The big six is a myth. It is a big three - Manchester United, Liverpool & Arsenal - huge clubs with global fanbases.
United are a global behemoth, Liverpool are bellends with history, Arsenal have sustained elite status. That is among why they are universally despised by rivals.
Chelsea pre-2003 were mostly also-rans with one title since 1955. Russian billions bought fleeting relevance, soulless mercenaries & now player trafficking.
City pre-2008 Abu Dhabi were nobodies. Their charges shroud their entire existence for fake dominance, amounting to empty seats & cheats.
As for Tottenham (or Newcastle), lol. Perpetual chokers & losers defined. Zero relevance beyond North London derbies, no global pull, just a big stadium.
The facts don't care about your feelings.