God I know am not like them😢 am just different built different,👥 I feel as if we all got a purpose and we all special 🤲in some way but me my potential💥 is unmatched am the chosen one only time will tell. ♟
I recommend using absence to gain your respect back.
I recommend giving a girl your number instead of asking for hers. If she likes you, she will text you.
I recommend building your body, especially your shoulders. You'd be surprised how much more attractive you look with a better frame.
I recommend putting people in their place at the very first sign of disrespect.
I recommend not chasing people. Pay attention to who chooses you.
I recommend leaving rooms where you constantly have to prove your worth.
I recommend being honest from the beginning. Pretending is exhausting.
I recommend saving money before people know you're making money.
I recommend letting people underestimate you.
I recommend taking pictures and videos of your parents more often.
I have worked with a millionaire (in dollars) who claims he succeeded out of luck & that fool works HARDER than I (or most people I know) do - and they don’t have a drop of the kind of money he does, I literally couldn’t catch up working with the guy.
Elumelu knows that this luck thing is what Nigerians want to hear, makes us feel good - like “hey, I am where I am because I don’t have that much luck”. It maybe true. But…
…again, I will tell you this; luck is influenced by positioning and positioning is influenced by bloody work and input - plus the difference in input between people who are top on their field and everyone else is INSANE.
I use a fresh bin bag everyday idc what’s inside and if I do a major cooking that bin won’t wait till next day.
Sometimes the cleaner that empties my trash every morning will say it’s not full.
I look at her like 🥴🥴🥴🥴
I’ll rather invest in bin bags than risk one awful smell peeking out my bin.
When I meal prep and I go shower I don’t want to smell ingredients in the sink by the time I’m back.
I’d have used vinegar or Clorox to suffocate that smell after scrubbing down the sink immediately.
Whatever I used to scrub is getting trashed immediately too.
Mop your floor with hot water if you don’t have a steam mop.
I’m not a perfectionist but it’s the little things that make your house smell clean all the time.
Home scents are even secondary.
To extract the gems of the soul you gotta convince yourself my g.
The world will not understand that.
Excellence is an isolating tunnel.
When you go in, only you know what you did to make it out.
It's important on this path you never deviate from your honor.
It's important to always stay close to your truth.
The proof is in the walk, not the talk.
There is money in this world.
Insane money.
Your mates are making ridiculous money out there because of information, access, and network.
Pressure yourself, you are not doing enough.
writing things down has a magical effect in a way that most of the things you write down turn into reality
what no one tells you about writing things down is that to get the
expected returns, you have to use it as a support system
meaning? it is all useless without execution
this is one of the highest forms of magic available btw. the equivalent of a daily spell. some call it prayer, some call it manifestation, some call it quantum leaping, but the infinite driving force behind it is the same. and it always delivers.
You might have already realized that talk therapy almost never works & self-help stuff are mostly useless.
If you arrived at this place, you're ready to dive into the world of the body & nervous system. Real emotions & really feeling stuff. There's no other way out.
I find the Reich-Lowen-Pierrakos lineage to be highly, criminally underrated. First pic below is a good intro (getting denser from top to bottom) and the second pic is more experiential/actual stuff you can do. Theoria & praxis.
The main risk is going too fast or alone, which could actually cause real problems. I myself have always been not so cautious about these types of warnings, and went too fast, too deep & can honestly say, there's literally zero need to go too hard, too fast. It's just not smart. Don't do it. Take it easy. These are overpowered anyways, take your time & listen to your body.
Worst thing you could do would be to read/research these and not apply anything (or overindex on types/theory in general) - the whole point is to get out of your head & into the body! Terrifying, I know. Take it easy & focus on max enjoyment.