Dan the Captain

[The married man @marriedmn]

If your sex life has changed after marriage, the problem might not be sex at all.

A lot of couples think intimacy disappears because the attraction is gone, but sometimes it starts much earlier. When one partner feels ignored, criticized, rejected, or emotionally disconnected, physical intimacy can slowly become harder too. Because it's difficult to feel desire when you don't feel emotionally safe, appreciated, or understood. And the more couples avoid talking about it, the bigger the distance becomes.

One partner feels rejected, the other feels pressured, and eventually both stop knowing how to reconnect.

The answer isn't simply to have more sex. Start rebuilding the connection outside the bedroom. Communicate honestly. Show affection without expecting something in return. Listen without becoming defensive, and make each other feel wanted again.

Because sometimes fixing intimacy starts long before you get to the bedroom.

[Yanga @Yanga_Co]

The enemy of most women 🤭

[The married man @marriedmn]

If you are planning to marry a woman, stop asking childish questions like:

“What’s your favorite color?”
“What’s your favorite food?”
“Who is your celebrity crush?”

Those questions won’t help you know her.

Ask her THESE instead- and you will know who she really is......

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Can a man find his wife sexually unattractive and still love her?

My answer is No.

A man does not even need to love his wife, for him to be sleeping with her.

In marriage, sex is a duty.

And not necessarily an obligation.

It's a duty because it's affiliated with roles, positions, and moral and ethical standards that marriage is expected to uphold.

It's not necessarily an obligation, because it may be seen as being legally forced to indulge in it to avoid some form of punishment.

Meaning, it may not be a consensual act.

Love is ephemeral in marriage.
It may be there, or it may not be there.

But the couple must be intentionally committed to each other.

"I married this woman, I don't have to love her, but I owe her a duty of care, protection, provision and sex"

That's why you're her husband.

If you deny your wife of sex, what you're doing in essence is dereliction of duty. You're willfully being negligent of her emotional or sexual needs.

Can you as a married man, stay for one or two months without sex?

Especially when you're not even far away from your wife?

Where are you getting sex from if you've not been sleeping with your wife for months?

Now flip it.

Can a married woman stay without sex for months?

Especially when she's not far away from her husband?

Where is her husband expecting her to get sex from?

You cannot tell me that blood is not flowing in her veins, or that she is no longer attractive to you as her husband.

If you don't see her sexually attractive to you anymore, it's because you're not taking good care of her.

You cannot use the excuse of her breasts getting sagged or her stomach not being flat anymore to deny her of sex.

Those are the "scars" of motherhood, which you put on her. You must embrace those scars and appreciate her body the way it is.

As long as your wife is not recalcitrant, or that you have caught her cheating, or that she is not dirty, you should not deny her of sex.

And if you're a kind provider, you'd further keep her in the mood and constantly or ever ready to accept you into her bosom & "Jerusalem".

Being a pastor or Imam should not be used as an excuse either.

You cannot be denying your wife of sex in the name of "I am praying to God to grant me my wish, so I have to abstain from sex".

God himself ordained marriage.

And he blessed your vows and covenant.

So stop using religion as an escape route.

Go and fuck your wife.

End.

[Leaders 𝕏 Junction @LeadersJunction]

Every Man needs to hear this 💯

[The Driven Man @Thedrivenman]

The truth about modern dating explained in the most critical way ‼️‼️

[Eric @amerix]

VIEWER DISCRETION!

As promiscuous women continue to insult me, here is a video by Raphael Tuju.

It is called THE SILENT EPIDEMIC,

It was a popular IEC (Information, Education and Communication) tool in the 90s and 00s promoting behaviour change and sensitising the public about Sexually Transmitted Infections.

Just like the 90s, a lot of young men today have become reckless and indiscriminate in the sex market.

Promotional sexual health messages have since been erased in our public institutions (Schools, colleges and hospitals), leaving an awareness gap that is silently predisposing young people to HIV/AIDS and STDs.

Young men engage in risky sexual behaviours, oblivious to the consequences of their choices.

This video is just 18 minutes, and it will save your life.

CHANGE or PERISH

[Your Best Version @YourPrimePath]

What rich families really educate their boys on:

-never look expensive look unbothered.
-don't explain yourself, power never over explains
-keep assets boring and pleasures private.
-learn which laws matter and which ones are for poor people only.
-never fall in love before you understand leverage.
-your surname opens doors. Don't embarrass it.
-cash is for emergencies. Credit is for opportunities.
-friends are categorized: useful, neutral, entertainment.
-if something is loud, emotional, or viral, its already a bad deal.
-always know who actually owns the room. It's rarely the loudest person.
-don't argue with broke people about money. Don't argue with emotional people about logic.
-learn taxes before you learn multiplication tables properly.
-you don't work hard forever. You work hard early to stop later.
-never let pleasure habits become visible patterns.
-reputation is currency. One scandal costs more than ten failures.
-silence is safer than honesty in most rooms.
-if you can't control your sleep, hunger, lust, or temper, you can't control money.
-marry someone who improves your bloodline, not your mood.
-keep one legal problem away from disaster at all times.
-always have an exit plan. For jobs, cities, county, relationships, even friendships.

[Better Men @Better_men]

I think all men should see this video and allow it simmer

[Harsh Hada @MasculineM7]

The most important decision that a man will make in his life..

[Top 1% Men @dtop1percentmen]

This is the best piece of advice 🔥

[Senator (Dr.) Prince Ned Nwoko @magin82ow]

This is so true.

[Club Shay Shay @ClubShayShay]

"Tears just rolled. ... I knew in that moment there was nothing that man wanted to say to me or anybody. He was having a moment, and all I needed to do was reassure him." - Dr. Cheyenne Bryant

[The Driven Man @Thedrivenman]

This man told the truth 😂☠️

[Modern Dad @ModernxDad]

Don't date an emotionally intelligent person if you..

[Manly Mentor @manly_mentor]

Men,
This is why Good men Cheat‼️‼️

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

As a parent, I think this video has taught me something useful.

I recommend that you should try it on your kids, too.

I have also shared it with my wife.

Credit: joe_drummer_boy on IG.

[The Driven Man @Thedrivenman]

Be water, my friend.

[Manly Mentor @manly_mentor]

Men,
This is why you must choose the healed one 🤯