I know what my wife earns and she knows mine.
She has 100 percent access to my phone and I do hers.
I sabi her atm pin, Bank app passwords, she knows mine too and can transfer money anytime, the money is our money sef, both money we make.
We are each other nok.
Our properties/belongings are in both of our names.
We do housechores together, nothing like gender role, she wash plate, I do laundry..
I want every single man to know there are still good woman out there with family values, its your job to painstakingly search for one, and also to be a better man
MY 2025 Wrapped🌟
• I got endorsed by @TechNation for the UK Global Talent Visa🇬🇧
• I relocated to the UK from Nigeria, God gave me so much ease with moving and I got settled in 1 month.
• I turned 25 this year, and celebrated my silver in a huge way🌟
• I joined a new company and started a new role!!
• I released my second engineering book with @WileyGlobal (300+ pages!)
• I started my Masters Degree at @GeorgiaTech, specialising in AI
• I gave a talk at an international cybersecurity and AI event (ALL EXPENSES PAID!!)
• I officially have a knowledge panel on @Google!💃
• I spoke at 11 events this year, including the @ZenithBank 's Women Day Conference (should have spoken at more but I took a break from speaking this year)
• I obeyed God and launched my mentorship program, @joincohorts_ and I’ve impacted lives globally. I designed my business model, made massive sales and officially started paying salaries!! (maybe I should go to business school next, lol)
• I was nominated for 3 awards, and I got recognised for my work in the tech ecosystem on numerous platforms.
• I worked with amazing brands this year, including @Replit, and I also made moneyyy as a creator!
• I passed my @Oracle certification exams this year (should have been more certs but we go again next year)
• I hit my savings/ investment goals even with a relocation (I thank God for always being my source!)
• I finally learnt how to SAY NO, this year I chose myself and wellbeing!
• My elder sister got married to the love of her life and she passed her medical exams. I'm so proud of her!
• I experienced a new dimension of God, I finally understood the gift of the Holy Spirit, and I got a word at Reboot Camp, @cci_global that changed my LIFE.
God beautified my life in 2025, and I can't wait for all that is to come in 2026❤️
Married for 3 years now, and I tell you, marrying my wife was the best decision I have ever made.
My wife is my best friend, my biggest cheerleader and my biggest supporter.
I dare say I don’t know where I would be right now.
Just to also add that for the 3 years we have been married, we have never had to call anyone. Not parents, siblings, friends or priests “to settle quarrel”. Tbh we have never had a quarrel, ;(that’s not to say we don’t have disagreements, we do). We just always have a conversation just the two of us and resolve whatever misunderstandings.
I fully and highly recommend marriage as soon as you find “your person”.
Always thankful for the gift of my sunshine.
Nathaniel Ndiana-abasi Bassey !
Mine is a story of GRACE.
Another year to declare God’s faithfulness and goodness. I am a man TRULY HELPED & FAVOURED BY GOD.
Saints, please help me thank this God.
“For I (Nathaniel Bassey) did not gain possession of the land by my own sword, Nor did my own arm save them; But it was Your right hand, Your arm, and the light of Your countenance, Because You favored Me.”
Psalms 44:3 NKJV
Women, if you are stupid to conceive a child for a man that wants just the child but not you, please once the child is born, hand it over to the man at the hospital and disappear. You see, when men spew this crap of wanting babies but not the mothers, they arrogantly assume that