Well-behaved women rarely make history. Ill-behaved women rarely make history. The same goes for men. Making history is very unlikely. Set yourself attainable goals, people.
As a history teacher, I teach that most people who are silenced are not silenced by any form of censorship. They are silenced by circumstances. The homeless, the incarcerated and the institutionalized are voiceless in our society, and no one complains about their free speech.