Don’t become like Lot’s wife.. fix your eyes forward and keep moving. Trust God enough to believe He has something better ahead for you. There is nothing behind you that you truly need.
idc how much you & a person rekindle things, you gone always think back to how they moved on you, knowing you would’ve never did it to them. the whole vibe be thrown off! it’s hard to love a person the same twice, especially if they aint appreciate it the 1st time.
1. Never overshare or overplay your role in his life.
2. Don’t ever fall in love with a man who has wandering eyes, they would never fully stay committed to you.
3. Always choose a man who loves you over a man you love. It saves you from heartbreak.
4. Never treat a man based on how you feel about him. Always treat him based on how he treats you.
5, Never ever be too available for a man. It causes overfamiliarity.
6. Never believe a guy that says let's take things slowly and see where it goes.
7. Never let a man prove that he doesn’t love you more than twice.
8. They know exactly what they are doing. If they show you, believe it and don't make excuses for him or you will cry blood.
9. Don't carry the whole relationship alone, you will die young.
10. Never marry or date a mama’s boy.
11. Never trust a man with so many female besties, they are definitely having sex together.
12. Don't ever loan a man your money. Never tell a man the truth about your finances. Today's men are the real gold-digging barbie princesses.
13. Don't be desperate for marriage, take ur time girl.
14. Never repeat yourself. He heard you the first time.
15. If you think something ain't right, then it is definitely not. Listen to your intuitive thoughts.
16. Don’t reveal your past to a man. He does not have to know anything.
17. Never go a single mile for a guy that hasn't gone an extra mile for you.
18. Do NOT forgive a cheating partner.
19. Don't ever start a relationship with always finding ways to prove yourself and loyalty.
20. Stop listening to what they say after they hurt you, and start watching what they repeatedly do before they hurt you again.
Lastly, never ever settle for less. Love yourself so much, don't ever lower your standards for any man, have boundaries and strongly abide by them.
Mannnn I done gave a ngga the softest version of me...the patient me, the understanding me, the nurturing me. I loved him through his worst days, made excuses for his behavior, stood beside him when he had nothing. Just to turn around and be the one crying, confused, and drained. That's when I realized... you can be everything to the wrong person and still not be valued. Never tf again.
He is not your person if he doesn’t make you feel valued and respected. He is not your person if he fails to support you when you need him most. He is not your person if he constantly makes you question your worth. That’s not love, he just loves the way you love him.