So news making rounds is finally the king of simps Steve Harvey, has gotten his long due overdose of female nature. Reports say, his wife Marjorie has been cheating on him with her bodyguard & family chef. And she's now demanding half of his networth approximately 200 million. What lessons can men learn from all this?
1. Stop pedestalizing women: We all saw Steve every single chance he got he would worship his wife thinking it's a flex. Many guys do this, worshipping their women thinking it'll make her more wet when it actually does the opposite
Why? Anything you worship is above you & remember a woman wants a man who's above her, not the other way round. Even if you're rich or famous, if you worship a woman she'll start to think she's above you. And she'll either cheat or leave you for someone she deems above her
2. Never promote a side chick: Majorie was Steve's side chick before he divorced his wife. And what did he do, promote the side chick to be his wife. This is catastrophic mistake
A woman who is willing to share with you knowing you're already married to another woman, is a woman who has no respect for boundaries. She should remain that which she is, a concubine, nothing more. What makes you think she'll respect those boundaries she crossed when you hadn't wifed her?
3. Avoid single moms: There is neither glory or honour in picking another man's failed family. Commiting were another man, havvest3d 1 or more children makes you a foolish man. Majorie was a single mom, but Steve saw nothing wrong commiting to her & even giving her kids his last name
It has never been & never will be a good move for a man to commit to a single mother. It will only end one way, with her thanking you either by cheating on you or going back to her baby daddy. A woman never forgets the man who made her a mother
4. Money doesn't make you alpha: Fun fact, Majorie once dumped Steve when he went broke, then when he finally got rich, he went back to pick her. This is stupid, a woman who leaves you when you're broke & comes when you're rich, isn't coming for love but for the money
Yes money may attract women but the harsh reality is it doesn't gurantee loyalty. Because a woman is only loyal to her feelings & unfortunately her feelings can't be bought. That's how she'll cheat or leave you despite all your sacrifices spending money on her
5. The apple doesn't fall far from the tree: He should have peeked that Majorie was for the streets, with the way her daughter Lorie Harvey behaves. Lorie Harvey has been passed around Hollywood celebs like a blunt, with no care in the world. Why? Because obviously the mother approves of it
Yes, it takes a ho3 to raise a ho3. Daughters are mere reflections of their mothers. Majorie has been pimping her daughter to every celebrity & then finessing them, more than Kris has done witn her Kardashian daughters combined. It was only a matter of time before she finnesed naive Steve
6. Step fatherhood has an expiry date: Single moms are not looking for love, but help. What does that even mean? It means once her children are off age & can provide for themselves, you cease to be useful anymore. Get ready to be disposed
And you will be disposed ruthlessly by the way, highlighted by Majorie demanding half of Steve's wealth
To conclude, as a man don't dig your grave by trying to succeed where another man failed. There is only one result, humiliation of the highest order. Learn OR perish!!!
IF THE DA WINS THE SOUTH AFRICAN NATIONAL ELECTIONS... THEY WILL RUN SOUTH AFRICA LIKE THE WESTERN CAPE & CAPE TOWN IN PARTICULAR...
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But... what does that actually look like?! 🤔🤔🤔
- Clean streets
- Well-run economy
- Functional public transport
- Great service delivery
- Stunning tourist areas
- Law & order followed
- Safe spaces & low crime
- Great police visibility
But... all this will generally only be for the rich white people in the suburbs, and a handful of rich blacks off BEE.
How does the Western Cape look for Black & Coloured People, generally the poor masses???
- Extreme violence
- Extreme poverty
- Drugs & gangs
- The highest income inequality
- Low wages
- Blacks & Coloureds shafted to townships & squatter camps
- No job opportunities at management, senior management & executive level
- No seriously wealthy Black & Coloured People
- Police unavailable, captured by thugs or scared to enter spaces
- Dirty streets, sewerage in the streets & rats
I listen to the DA constantly point at Cape Town as their project and wonder if they know how ignorant, racist & patronizing it is when they do that... and how it's triggering for Black & Coloureds WITHIN the Western Cape!?
Pointing to insanely expensive, 95% white suburbs that generally run themselves - because the people there inherited their wealth from British Colonialism or Afrikaner Apartheid... & have built privileges that keep non-whites far from them, and the Black & Coloured People they are exposed to are servants who fake-smile all day at them, treat them like masters & run when summoned.
The DA lost the cream of Black "coconuts"... Black middle class people who were sympathetic to the cries of White South Africans & tried to push Mandela's dream of non-racialism:
- Mmusi Maimane: called a "failed experiment" by Tony Leon
- Herman Mashaba: snaked by the DA for having a voice within the DA
- Lindiwe Mazibuko
- Phumzile van Damme
- Mamphela Ramphele
- Patricia de Lille
If they can't fool such understanding, educated, middle-class Black folk, how do they expect to win the hearts of the poorest black masses, who haven't even tasted the middle class life? And who put all their poverty blames on white people?!
They scream merit & cadre deployment... yet hypocritically & ironically have John Steenhuizen as a leader, and have their own portfolio of corruption and inexperienced- & unqualified deployees occupying various offices.
I hate how the ANC has failed South Africa. The corruption is now deep within the core culture of the ANC. They have looted and destroyed the country. They have happily agreed to be puppets for Colonialism and Apartheid companies & overseas capitalistic nations, at the expense of the masses. They are a failure and have pushed Black ppl back 50 years physically and perhaps 100 years mentally. They must be removed from office... as in, yesterday.
But the DA is not the saviour it pretends to be. They want to bring back the good old days where Black people know their place & are relegated to townships, where they get woeful service delivery.
One day, I'll give a full breakdown of why I lost favour with the EFF & will not be voting for them either... but I just wanted to talk about the DA.
Especially with this bogus Moonshot Pact they are peddling to middle class White, Coloured & Black People... while having their own potential coalition deals with the ANC backdoor. They are snakes. Sp it's a no from me.
To everyone else... approach with caution. Ask questions. Do your own research. Get on the ground. And apply your mind objectively.
That's all from me today.
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The Persuasion Paradox
Have you noticed that the most argumentative people rarely persuade anyone?
The most persuasive people don’t argue—they observe, listen, and ask questions.
Argue less, persuade more.
Persuasion is an art that requires a paintbrush, not a sledgehammer.