One of my toxic traits (if you can call it that) is that I think all coffee drinks automatically come with non-dairy creamers so I forget to tell the barista I want coconut milk and don’t realise it until I have the whole milk coffee in my hand and I am fuming
You wouldn’t ask a lawyer who’s your acquaintance to take your case for free
Wouldn’t ask your friend who’s a plumber to re-do your house as a favor
Somehow, you’d ask someone you know who’s a trainer for free programs & advice
Respect someone’s time, knowledge & value
Why should we care what the “founding fathers” thought about guns or statehood for DC. That was 200 years ago, guns were muskets and Georgia was “the west.” Plus they enslaved human beings so maybe i don’t give a shit what they thought.