@northstardoll Lack of self-esteem. You don't trust yourself enough, so even though you are actually a smart and capable person, you keep fucking things up. Build your self esteem.
People with high self-esteem understand a fundamental law of the universe; things do not move unless you move, things don't change unless you change. Change your internal states and habits and your results will be different.
@orangebook A high-esteem individual cannot be manipulated, simply because their life is internally driven and not controlled by forces outside themselves. They know what they want and cannot be deceived to want something else.
@orangebook A high-esteem individual cannot be manipulated, simply because their life is internally driven and not controlled by forces outside themselves. They know what they want and cannot be deceived to want something else.
A person of good heart.should always protect it. You don't keep a valuable treasure outside, where just anybody can have access to it. The same way, you must protect your emotions from the unworthy.
Self acceptance is a major part of building self esteem. You must accept your mistakes before you can go on to improve. Accept yourself. Accept your shortcomings, you're human. After the acceptance, only then can betterment ensue.
Love internally to external, not external to internal. You decide your values, beliefs and your goals. Not the world, not others, not family, not friends. You!
@miniarchillect Relationships are like gardens. The seeds you water are meant to reciprocate by producing fruits that will later nourish you. If the person you're relating with doesn't reciprocate, cease watering that garden.
@miniarchillect Relationships are like gardens. The seeds you water are meant to reciprocate by producing fruits that will later nourish you. If the person you're relating with doesn't reciprocate, cease watering that garden.
@FearlessTurbo Confidence truly is trained through action.
The body leads, the mind follows ‐ how you carry yourself shapes how you think and how others respond. Powerful reminder.
You will die some day. You've only got one chance to live life, you've only got one self and you're stuck with it forever. Begin to love yourself, take care of yourself, cherish yourself and build yourself. Give yourself everything you deserve.
@Dearme2_ High self-esteem people understand that to reach their goals requires risks, but the thing with risks is that it has a likely chance of not working. But this doesn't deter people with high-self esteem from going after what they want.
If you must carry on relationships with people as a person of high self-esteem, then they must reciprocate. Do not put all your eggs in one basket if you notice that the person is stacking some of his/her eggs somewhere else. Discard the relationship.