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[jo johnson @josbjohnson]

I hope you do something with all that fire in your chest. there is so much of yourself you haven’t even had the chance to discover yet. things you could make, places you could go, ways you could surprise yourself that you can’t even imagine right now - and maybe none of it works out the way you pictured. maybe you spend years chasing something and end up somewhere completely different. but at least you were in there, getting your hands dirty, making a life instead of watching one pass by.

[Sahil Bloom @SahilBloom]

Underrated life advice: Never make someone regret being honest with you. If someone has the courage to tell you the truth, don’t punish them for it. You can disagree. But if you train people to believe that honesty gets punished, they’ll start giving you comfort instead of truth.

[Emmy 🦋 @emmyxtweets]

Sometimes you meet someone and think, maybe I can give them the kind of love they've always been missing. You show up, you're patient, you communicate, and you give them every reason to believe you're not there to hurt them. Then you realise the problem was never that nobody loved them properly, it was that they had learned to treat anything good like a threat. It's a strange lesson, but sometimes giving someone what they always wanted is how you discover why they could never keep it.

[alexei @alexeixbt]

neuroplasticity works faster under high emotional intensity. if you can resist a craving when it's at its peak, you get a bigger rewiring effect. this is why the hardest moments matter most, they're not setbacks, they're high-voltage opportunities to change.

[Sahil Bloom @SahilBloom]

I’m convinced adaptability is the highest form of intelligence. Knowledge matters, but the ability to unlearn and change course is rare. The most impressive people I know change their minds often in response to new information. The goal isn't to be right. It's to find the truth.

[🥷 @_iamhabeeb]

knowing someone for years doesn’t mean you’re actually close to them. time can create familiarity without creating real understanding

[The journey of A Christian lady @ThejourneyofACL]

Instead of doom scrolling until midnight, use one hour daily to worship God before you go to bed. Create a playlist or play a worship song. Worship and pray in the Holyghost. Do this and it will change your life🥹

[$yde! @Bigsydee]

but on a deeper level, i don't think some people really understand what it's like to carry things you never got the chance to process. they just think time heals everything, but sometimes it doesn't. time just teaches you how to function around the pain. how to smile. how to show up. how to do what you're supposed to do. you just learn how to perform "okay" so well that people stop asking if you actually are.

[yimika. @yimikaaaa]

Wow my Pastor just said
"sometimes we set alarms and think that's the reason why we wake up"
...Let that sink

[Jentezen Franklin @Jentezen]

"Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid." John 14:27

[Reads with Ravi @readswithravi]

This paragraph by Haruki Murakami hits hard:

“Once the storm is over, you won’t remember how you made it through, how you managed to survive. You won’t even be sure, whether the storm is really over. But one thing is certain. When you come out of the storm, you won’t be the same person who walked in. That’s what this storm’s all about.”

[Marvelous Jesus @Marvel0usJesus]

Jesus said, “Unless a kernel of wheat falls to the ground and dies, it remains only a single seed. But if it dies, it produces many seeds.” John 12:24

[painkiller 💀 @thombrider254]

Chenye imenistua ni venye nimeona morio wangu kwa list ya beneficiaries ya watu wa huko Nepal 😂😂

[𖣂 @ElsfGs]

some of the songs that healed you were written by people who were probably trying to heal themselves too

[$yde! @Bigsydee]

being in a healthy relationship made me realize why people become private when they've found their person. not because they're hiding them, but because they finally found something that doesn't need validation from everyone else

[alpha man @alphaman_111]

People who never work on themselves think everyone else is the problem. When there is no willingness to look inward, it becomes easier to blame the world than to face your own patterns. Every disagreement becomes someone else's fault, and every failed relationship is explained without personal accountability. Growth begins the moment you stop asking, "Why does this keep happening to me?" and start asking, "What is this trying to teach me?" Self-awareness is uncomfortable because it requires the courage to confront the parts of ourselves we would rather ignore. But without reflection, the same wounds, habits, and cycles continue to repeat under different names and different faces.

[🥷 @_iamhabeeb]

Nothing is more annoying than someone telling you to do something you were literally about to do

[Issybeatz @Issybeatz_]

Yall really gotta start listening to albums. Sometimes the deep cuts be better than the hit singles…

[Juliet Nnenna @Nennyj23]

Now I understand why Jacob wrestled with that angel and said "you will go nowhere until you bless me".

[Okong' Okuna @XivTroy]

I think people who find dating too daunting do so because they spend more time curating a perfect ending than actually living the experience. Personally, I just enjoy these things. I give it the best I have, according to my capacity. If it works out, perfect. If not, still good.