Being an "understanding person" is the worst kind of thing. i repeat worst. You have to understand people's situations, their problems, their traumas. But when it comes to you, you will scream alone. Absolutely alone.
If I’m having a tough conversation with you, it’s because I want u in my life & want you to tighten up so I can keep u in it. I’m not attacking you.
Cuanto más aprendo sobre las personas con apego evitativo, más pena les tengo. Imagina tener tanto que decirle a alguien que amas, pero no tener forma de decirlo porque la vulnerabilidad y la intimidad no se sienten seguras.