A lot of social success comes from understanding that not everyone close to you is close for the same reason. Some are there for affection. Some for access. Some for education. Some for status transfer. Some for timing. Few are a man’s true friends. Many are merely friends of his circumstances.
The crowd admires confidence, but what it really rewards is successful illusion. People want masks that reassure them, flatter them, or fit the role they hoped you would play. This is why truth-tellers often feel socially expensive. They break the scene. They force others to confront motives, compromises, and dependencies that were functioning perfectly well under the softer lie.
Most times, when you hear "we decided" from a Nigerian couple, na the wife make the decision.
If na the man decision, the woman no go ever talk "we decided."
I need every Nigerian to retweet this and contribute to the cause of saving Maryam’s life, she’s diagnosed with Tetralogy of Fallot with Polycythemia.
She’s currently at ABU teaching hospital SHIKA receiving primary attention.
The backside of being financially fluent and popular is that, even if you don’t chase women, they will always find a way of walking down into your life. Completely avoiding women in your youthful era with so much money is practically impossible. They are mini devils that set you astray even when you don’t intend to.
Do a more thorough investigation and you will realize the women involved initiated the first move. Even the embattled Hafsat was a supposed friend to the first wife. It was a battle of sheer betrayal.
What happened to Saleem Goje is largely bad luck, he was exposed by the person he least expect— his wife, she opens the can of worms and had his career dangling in danger. Again, may we never marry spouses that will partake in our career takedowns.