it is an unwritten rule of life that after every prolonged period of hardship and uncertainty, there is going to be a period when you are going to achieve quantum leaps across multiple areas of your life. the only requirement is that you do not give up on yourself.
Major cheat code for life: Become difficult to rush. The world will pressure you to rush into everything. Rushed decisions. Rushed conversations. Rushed relationships. Rushed timelines. There's immense power in rejecting that trend. Slow down. Create space to think clearly.
It took me 8 years of overthinking, burnout, and self-judgment to realize what I’m about to tell you in 2 minutes.
This is how neurodivergent minds - the anxious, the hyper-focused, the “too intense” ones - were never broken:
Whenever you cannot decide, it is important to remember that it is often better to make a wrong choice, learn from it and move on than sit in the purgatory of analysis paralysis. That’s the real torture.
I love to see the contradiction unfold in real time ☺️☺️☺️☺️
So 24 is old enough to date — even marry and have children— but too young to make up her mind on tubal ligation… too young to know that that is not the life they desire…
Most patients don't realize their doctors and nurses think about them in the spaces between visits. While driving home, getting ready for bed, while falling asleep.
Our work is a part of us, and we care about you. That's all.
I started residency with very high hopes, and a lot of ambitions; to learn, to help people and to do something of my own but I come back home every day more and more frustrated. The system is collapsing in a way I never anticipated, and I can’t wait not to do this anymore.
@heavenbrat There’s something beautiful about realizing
you can restart your story as many times as your soul needs —
no permission, no apology,
just a quiet return to yourself.
Life doesn’t have rules.
Only directions you outgrow
and new ones you’re brave enough to choose.
Dear ladies never forget that: The same world that shames me for being a single mother also shames you for not being a mother and shames another woman for having too many children..lt shames one woman for having a child at the age of 19 because she's too young but also shames another for having at 36 because she's too old..lt shames a woman who marries young as well as the one who marries old..It shames women who don't have beautiful bodies and shames those who go under the knife to get the bodies. This world shames all women, not a single one of us is spared, not a single one. So love and make yourselves happy.