DNF if you tolerate bigotry or abuse. This includes: any "reclamation" which is just using slurs pejoratively, all ableist/sanist language & anti-disability liberation, pro-carceralism or any form of detention (1/
@geckotailzz is there even a difference between gynecomastic breasts and female breasts? isn't the only thing that makes it gynecomastia the fact that it's occuring in a male
trans men are simultaneously the centre of everything and also completely invisible. depends whether we're pretending today that they're not targeted by terfs or that they have the same privilege as cis men
@sirius_shiba butch trans women can be nice I'm just talking about the absence of any discussion of trans women being "heckin valid!!" it's always just trans men because men have to be in the center of everything apparently
@onewitchwillow like if we want to get rly into it, ace ppl can also be straight and there are also cistrans ppl etc. Easier to just directly say non-queer if that's what you mean than try to craft an increasingly long & imprecise list of non-queer identities
also why i prefer queer to lgbtqia+