@Wizarab10 People heal differently though, but in all your healing, don’t short-circuit the process. It’s like sealing a wound before it has fully closed…trapping the pain only forces you to bleed all over again
@FinPlanKaluAja1@rare_mee Everyone says Grok. Maybe.
But if Neuralink's goal is to understand and interface with the human mind, having the world's largest dataset of how humans think, react, and communicate might be just as valuable.
@ThaBoyYom other man. He was asking for advice on how to get the images out of his head.
I've never forgotten that story, so yes, people absolutely get caught red-handed outside movies.
@ThaBoyYom I remember reading a Saturday relationship/advice column in a Nigerian newspaper probably *Punch* or *Vanguard* sometime between 2005 and 2010 when I was a kid.
The husband said both he and his wife were virgins when they got married. He was
@ThaBoyYom and, because they were Christians, he said he forgave her and stayed in the marriage.
The reason I still remember the story isn't even the cheating. Years later he wrote back saying that whenever they had sex, he couldn't stop wondering if that was how she had been with the
@ThaBoyYom later transferred from Lagos to Abuja and promised to come home every other weekend until he could get transferred back.
One weekend he decided to surprise her and came home earlier than expected. He caught her literally pants down with another man.
She cried, begged, apologise
@felixherbt Nigeria has 93 million registered voters. A ruling party claiming 13-15M members is large but numerically possible especially with low turnout (only ~27M total votes in 2023).
Senegal's crisis proved that borrowing trillions to artificially lower the cost of living leads straight to bankruptcy. Removing the subsidy is what stopped Nigeria from going over that exact same cliff 📉🔥.
@RaybanjsADESONA@jon_d_doe But life isn’t always linear. In 20-30 years, what if some of these kids don’t want to stay in the West? Economies shift, housing becomes unaffordable, taxes crush the middle class, or cultural fatigue sets in.
@RaybanjsADESONA@jon_d_doe offers better value.
Why assume our own kids couldn’t one day see strategic value in Nigeria (or split time) if it becomes relatively better on cost of living, family ties, or opportunity? A modest, smart property as part of a diversified portfolio isn’t crazy..
@RaybanjsADESONA@jon_d_doe We’ve already seen some diaspora youth eyeing returns home when opportunities align.
Look at how many indigenous Westerners are now buying retirement homes in Southeast Asia (Thailand, Malaysia, Philippines, Vietnam) and other Global South spots because it’s cheaper, warmer, and
@xentjames4@AliasDudulenu I feel you, but that's not limited to them alone. It's because they are the ones you've shared most of your experiences with. It rains everywhere.