I don’t believe in saying fcked up things to ppl out of anger. To me you’re saying exactly what you’ve been feeling, and you expect your anger to excuse it. I take words very seriously.
the intimacy of becoming familiar with small details: the way eyes light up in response to certain words or actions. memorising coffee orders. recognising the loops of handwriting. hearing a change in tone when discussing a specific topic. knowing if it’s a genuine laugh/smile