@DreamMakerShawn@ben_gramfitness Last piece of advice is not good. If you do ANYTHING and it feels like you’re doing it because you “should” you’re leaving room to blame the other person when things go shitty. If it doesn’t feel good in your gut, don’t do it.
@MillionsWithMe I say spend nothing unless you really really really have the most amazing 2-way relationship. If your gut hesitates, don’t get married. My 21 year marriage ended b/c I didn’t realize how unfixable the problems were.
@IwriteOK I fucked that up and now I am trying to get it right after-the-fact. I may never get the relationship I crave yet I hope my words show my kids that I understand the poor choices I made.