As a man. No one cares about you. Not your wife. Not your family. Not your friends. Not your workmates. Nobody. People act like they care, but deep down, they don't. You are on your own. Always on your own.
We are living in a time where the intelligent are expected to stay silent so the ignorant are not offended. The result is that truth becomes controversial while nonsense is celebrated.
Education should make you more curious and open minded, not allergic to being corrected. If learning made you convinced you’re smarter than everyone else and always right, you just found a more sophisticated way to be wrong.
When you get married, understand this: it’s you two against the world.
Not your mother.
Not his friends.
Not her girlfriends.
Not your siblings.
Everybody else gets a seat at the table only if your marriage allows it. Protect your home. Protect your intimacy. Protect each other.
Alcohol might be the greatest scam ever sold. You pay for something that tastes awful, lowers your standards, clouds your judgment, damages your body, and leaves you feeling worse the next day. Somehow that’s called fun.
There are graduates who don't know how to write application letters.
I keep telling you the problem isn't employment. The problem is that a lot of you are unemployable.
• Poor writing skills.
• Zero comprehension skills.
• Self-entitlement and thinking you know better. "I am a Gen Z, nobody will tell me anything."
• Poor work ethic.
• Mama's boys, lazy, slow, chaotic, with zero emotional intelligence.
• No critical thinking skills.
• Absent communication skills. Zero selling skills. Poor interpersonal and intrapersonal skills.
• Zero ethical standards. Dirty. Unkempt hair. Ugly shoes. Poor grooming.
• Smelling of sweat early in the morning. Stinking underpants. Dirty socks.
• Betting, gambling, smelling of alcohol early in the morning.
• Masturbating and porn addiction.
• Zero time management skills.
• They can't return something where they picked it up from. They leave it there, expecting someone else to do it.
• Dirty environment. Dirty workspace. Chaotic. Papers, pens, mugs, spoons scattered on tables.
Then they expect 1 million in salary monthly.
If they are fired, they turn around and say,
"That place was toxic."
No, it wasn't toxic. It is you who was intolerable, malodorous and toxic.
No employer will tolerate you.
Start your business and see how far it will go when you employ such jokers.
You will suffer until you learn a lesson.
Do you think your mother will be covering you forever?
CHANGE or PERISH
Having a man who still genuinely wants you, desires you, and can’t keep his hands off you after years together is an underrated blessing.
People talk about emotional compatibility, communication, and stability, but being deeply desired by the person you’ve built a life with is its own kind of intimacy.
Being poor is more expensive than being rich. When you have less money, you pay more for bad credit, high interest, cheap products that break, unreliable transportation and emergencies you cannot afford to prepare for.
Being broke does not just cost you money. It costs you options.
Study yourself. Your thought patterns. Behavior. Habits. Compulsions. Anxieties. Insecurities. Addictions. These are the very things standing between you and the life you actually want to live. Sit with them. Once you face them, the unconscious becomes conscious. And when you finally understand what they are and how they control you, you awaken. You become... unstoppable.
Turn around. Face the thing you've been avoiding. Face it once, properly, and it shrinks. It's not be as big as your mind has been billing it.
Just stop showing it your back. Stop running away. Deal with it. Deal with them as they come. Humans and situations... face them.
no one talks about the personality shift in your 30s where you no longer want to be impressive you just want to be rested, regulated, and completely unavailable to anything that drains you
You're a man. Forgive your father. Forgive your ex-girlfriend. Forgive your former boss. Forgive your competitors. It doesn’t matter how bad they wronged you. Grudges hold you back. Never revenge, heal, and move on with your life. That shit delays your blessings man.
To women who follow me,
When you work on yourself, you attract a man who works on himself.
Like attracts like.
Standards attract standards.
Discipline attracts discipline.
Do not look for what you are not.
Become it first.
#BetterTogether
Read more books. Read to escape reality. Read to understand reality. Read to challenge what you believe. Read to think better. Read to write better. Read to argue better. Read to know yourself. Read to build something. A single book can completely rewire your brain.
Shamelessly promote yourself.
The world is full of incompetent people who aren't ashamed to promote themselves.
So if you're competent, it's your obligation to promote yourself.