Everything a man says he needs from a woman has a market value.
Cook? Paid. Housekeeper? Paid. Nanny? Paid. Surrogate? Paid. Therapist? Paid.
The difference is that marriage often bundles all of these into one person and calls it her duty
This ideo absolutely cracks me up. I have 2 sons and let me tell you, they might be older now, but just a few years ago they were into every single thing possible. One would be digging in the garbage and making a mess while the other one decides to take a pee in the tub just to see what it would be like. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
If you don’t think he’s a woman, you’re transphobic. When he claimed to be a woman, he became a woman. He now belongs in women’s changing rooms, bathrooms, hospital wards, prison cells and rape support centres.
If you try and differentiate between him and a trans woman who looks more convincing as a woman, you are promoting patriarchal beauty norms. If you admit to seeing an aggressive and possibly unbalanced man in this video, you’re saying all trans people are mentally ill predators. If you refuse to let him into female-only spaces, you’re removing his right to exist. If you suggest he could comfortably use male facilities, you secretly want him assaulted. If you refuse to call him ‘she’, you are guilty of unpardonable cruelty. If you’re a woman who wouldn’t want to share a locker room with him, or a man who wouldn’t want your daughter, sister or mother to get undressed in close proximity to him, you belong to the far-right. If you point out that there is no objective difference between his claim to be a woman and that of any other biological male claiming a trans identity, you are too stupid to understand the circular arguments explaining why he’s not really trans whereas other men who say they’re women are really trans.
If you’re righteous, you must argue that this man’s self-declared identity overrides any consideration of the safety and rights of females. To be godly, you must agree he’s as ‘valid’ as every other trans woman, because people are who they say they are. No matter what your eyes, ears and common sense are telling you, if you don’t want to end up on the wrong side of history, you must pretend to believe that this angry, intimidating man is actually a vulnerable, oppressed woman.
my grandpa died when i was 18. my grandma pulled me aside and told me every horrible thing he did to her bc she needed to tell someone. she’d kept it a secret for 60 years. she made me promise never to tell my dad bc she didn’t want to ruin the image of his father in his mind
Oh yes!
On the right wing: Some women use religion, tradition, and nature to prioritise heterosexual men’s interests over women’s choices/wants.
On the left wing: Some women use feminist language to pressure women into prioritising men’s feelings/interests over women’s interests, safe spaces, boundaries, and wants.
Different ideology. Different language. Same habit: prioritising men’s interests over women’s interests.
You people want to allow gayy MEN, bisexual! MEN and trans MEN.. who are infact still MEN to invade women’s space by all means..
Y’all birds don’t realize how misogynist these people are… they even haate women more than straight MEN..
And you want them in your space cos they wear wig and put on make ups..
You people want to reduce womanhood to just wigs and makeup??
Feminine MEN are not women..
Being Soft spoken doesn’t make you a woman..
They should stay in their places as MEN!!
It is selfish for MEN that dress like women to be fighting to be in Women’s spaces!!
You will never see masculine women fighting to be in men’s space..
It’s always these MEN on wigs!!
Women will never come second to men for me because said man is queer, I’m sorry. What we’re dealing with here is too complex and too layered for the rebuttal of intersectionality(which often always is one sided) where said intersectionality is centering queer men.
Men are socialized to be predators to women FIRST before they are any other thing. The exception of these men are the ones who did the work to deconstruct and they’re not in grand numbers.
I will not a be a tool in perpetrating this predatory behavior and blurring the lines on consent and autonomy because I am concerned about the queer man. Especially not in today’s Nigeria.
You people talk about cis-heterosexual Nigerian women as if you’re talking about white women, and it has to stop. I still read somewhere today where someone called these women privileged. In a country where femicide happens every 49 hours, you’re calling a woman privileged.
I love how people are willing to suspend disbelief long enough to believe in a hot man made out of wicker, but not enough to trust that his wicker appendage won’t give you splinters
I think what yesterday’s discourse has made apparent is that a lot of ppl within the queer community don’t respect non queer ppls boundaries or sexual orientation.
Throw women under the bus for trans women
Throw women under the bus for bisexual men
The common denominator here is a man…and you, a woman is fighting to control a woman’s autonomy for a man 😭
You people are losing your minds because of wokeness