This may sound a lil woowoo but I firmly believe that your resources will be impacted if you are surrounded by people who do not like you!! Especially if you’re an overgiver.
I am grateful for the women who will never turn their backs on males. Thank you for your sacrifice. Thank you for keeping them occupied so women like me can continue to fly under the radar. Thank you for believing in them. Thanks for being the buffer btw us. Better y’all than me.
growing into yourself after prolonged trauma is realizing how much of your personality was shaped by survival
and when looking back at old photos, you can so clearly see the wound + what needed to be held