Nele

Your local disappointment.

[Sophia ❣️ @KeruboSk]

Neurodivergents will say “I need rest” but what they actually mean is “I need uninterrupted time to exist as myself for a few hours”

[jynx @jynxbby]

men be like “you’ve been different ever since i disrespected you”

[T2 @UTDtwo]

a hardest pill to swallow is that people will hurt you. dehumanize you in so many ways and not feel badly about it. they won’t feel a thing actually. they’ll move on with their day, their week, their life, happy as ever but there you are, crushed. loss of appetite. loss of sleep.

[‏ً @omgsidewalks]

“what’s stopping you from-“ listen i am so so sleepy

[Better Men @Better_men]

PEOPLE LACK ACCOUNTABILITY, then be like, "you could've just talked to me." No, I couldn't lol. You don't listen. You deflect. You gaslight. You make me feel like I'm the problem for bringing it up. So no, I stayed silent to protect my sanity, not because I didn't want to fix.

[‏ً @omgsidewalks]

i prefer a lil favoritism. i wanna be treated better than everyone that’s in your life

[The_Narc_Decoder @NarcDecoder]

The Narcissist........

"I am going to make it impossible for you to succeed by causing you so much stress that you end up in survival mode and only have the ability to just get by."

"Then I am going to berate you for not being able to succeed or fulfil your goals."

[Nate Postlethwait @nate_postlethwt]

If you want to understand the life of a trauma survivor, ask them which hurt worst: The original trauma or not being believed? Then, just listen.

[Nate Postlethwait @nate_postlethwt]

Those who have harmed you will create false narratives around you, your experiences, and your character. They are doing this because in order to be honest about who you are, they would have to be honest about what they’ve done.

[The Notorious J.O.V. @whotfisjovana]

ㅤ

[Nate Postlethwait @nate_postlethwt]

It is normal to be uncomfortable around people who have traumatized you. It is equally normal to be uncomfortable around people who support them after you've spoken up.

[Nate Postlethwait @nate_postlethwt]

The idea of mindfulness can feel dismissive to a person with complex trauma. When your mind & body is at war, you want to escape that, not think deeper on it. Being mindful is healing, but there are many steps to take to help that person feel stable before mindfulness feels safe.

[Nate Postlethwait @nate_postlethwt]

It’s tragic how often we judge someone’s behavior but don’t name their pain.

[Nate Postlethwait @nate_postlethwt]

There are people who will believe and understand you without you needing multiple ways to explain it. They may not be in your family, but they know full well the loneliness that comes with feeling like an outcast. May you find them. May they find you. May you both help others.

[stressed @onlystresstoday]

Any relationship that requires you to be a quiet or a more watered down version of yourself for it to “work out” is not the relationship for you

[Nate Postlethwait @nate_postlethwt]

Please don’t wait for other people to change so you can heal.

[Nate Postlethwait @nate_postlethwt]

To tell someone whose experienced trauma to “let go” is to pretend when they do, they’ll return to what they once knew. They’re not just missing life before trauma—they’re letting go of how life could’ve been had they not got hurt to begin with. “Let go” is insulting.

[Nate Postlethwait @nate_postlethwt]

You weren’t ghosted if they tried speaking up and you talked over them.

You weren’t ghosted if they expressed boundaries that you continued to cross.

You weren’t ghosted if you judged them for living life differently than you expected.

You were uninvited when they moved on.

[Nele @ItsNxlx]

@Iam_prabhath My guy, that's not Essen in the first video