Dysfunctional Belief: Work is not supposed to be enjoyable; that’s why they call it work.
Reframe: Enjoyment is a guide to finding the right work for you.
Ninety-nine percent of people in the world are convinced they are incapable of achieving great things, so they aim for mediocre. The level of competition is thus fiercest for "realistic" goals... The fishing is best where the fewest go...
Slow down and remember this:
Most things make no difference.
Being busy is a form of laziness—lazy thinking and indiscriminate action.
Being overwhelmed is often as unproductive as doing nothing, and is far more unpleasant.
Being selective—doing less—is the path of the productive.
Focus on the important few and ignore the rest.
Booking Tony Robbins today costs $1 million for a single day. this is a 21-minute tape from inside his own house, filmed over 30 years ago, where he breaks down exactly how to get anyone to say yes. same $1 million material. completely free.
this is a rare, unfiltered tape from decades before this man started charging billionaires just to be in the room with him.
people give you two excuses when they say no, he says. not enough time. not enough money. neither is true. the real reason is they don't believe it's worth it yet, and that's not a money problem, that's a state problem.
so he teaches something he calls attack and confess. instead of arguing with the objection, you confess your own. "I had a chance to go to this thing six months ago and I didn't go until two months ago," he tells the room. "I can't even imagine the time I lost." the room goes quiet. nobody argues back.
he calls it getting someone on the yes train. every small yes you get compounds into the next one, until saying no to the final ask feels harder than saying yes. by the time he asks someone to sign, he says, they've already agreed to it five times over without realizing it.
21 minutes. that's all it takes to walk away knowing the exact two moves people pay $1 million a day to learn: how to read anyone's state, and how to move it. most people spend years in sales guessing at this. he wrote it down on a flip chart in his living room in under half an hour.
a seat in that room cost $125 back then. today it's a $1 million-a-day to sit in front of him.
The tape is free right now, and the answer is in this video.
@naval@anondeguerre The oligarch is using money and influence to empower the schemer to achieve the oligarchs interests in question. The oligarch could be labeled as the root of the scheme, but are not seen or known as the schemer.
Golf is a gentleman's game, a polite handshake between competitor & course. In reality it’s a hostage negotiation. We try to maintain our composure, but it operates like a bad contract with fine print you didn't read -every clause designed to remind you that the house always wins
Not a big fan of Jimmy Kimmel, but if you think his show should be canceled for this, you’re a hack and a total fraud who should never pretend to care about free speech
Hell has frozen over. Tucker Carlson is calling out the fascist authoritarian Trump regime for insidiously using the assassination of Charlie Kirk as an excuse to abolish the First Amendment, round up Americans, and carry out the Nazification of America.
This is the worst non answer in the history of mankind. The only thing he possibly said is golf and money are more important than 9/11 victims so 9/11 families can go fuck themselves for all he cares. Jay Monahan is human trash #JayMonahan
Imagine the countless lives we could save if more people drove Teslas. With safety as a top priority, Tesla is leading the charge towards a safer future on our roads.
@GriffinMalone6 Imagine the scenario where law enforcement is nonexistent. Insinuating that we would be safer with no police. Thx to police for preventing crime due to presence of law enforcement. Careful for what we wish for. He says We keep us safe? “We” weren’t running towards the shooter.
I’d argue LIV golfers are being paid for a self imposed censorship; to ignore what those who pay for LIV golf are doing. They have what those repressed individuals in SA could only dream of having. They are in a way their only hope for redress, bc it’s not coming from within.