@dwallacewells It is probably naive. Having money, after all, allows you to look after the ones you love. The trick is to have a decently paid career that you enjoy. That ain't easy.
@Zen_active To be fair it's still hard to chase social status like this and be gay. However handsome my partner I'm not going to impress my peers. That's fine.
@burkewhy2@Grandoldduke93@fesshole I dunno. Maybe. I think that standard asks too much of us. Personally, I'll just settle for not getting obsessed and not texting when I'm drunk.