Dear Frank Edoho, this is a financial and life advisory from someone who has been watching.
First, the school fees, the properties, the years of provision, the emotional labour, all of that is gone and it is not coming back, mourn it for exactly 30 days, after that it becomes a tuition fee for the most expensive masterclass in human character assessment you will ever attend, file it under education and move forward.
Second, you are 57 years old, still handsome, still distinguished, still employed, still relevant, still the man who made “is that your final answer” a cultural moment in Nigerian television history. The woman who left that did not leave because you were not enough, she left because some people confuse a blessing for an entitlement, that is her problem now, not yours.
Third, your next investment will not be in a woman who needs building, you have already built two complete human beings from scratch with your resources, your time, and your emotional capacity. Going forward you are only investing in something that already has equity, no fixer upper projects or rehabilitation contracts, you are not NNPC and you cannot afford another turnaround maintenance scam.
Fourth, separate your finances permanently and structurally, whatever you own going forward carries your name only until a relationship has proven itself over years not months, love is beautiful but a joint account requires the same due diligence as a business partnership….which it literally is.
Fifth, the woman making noise publicly right now naming people and building a victim narrative is doing you a favour you have not recognised yet. She is showing everyone watching exactly who she is without you having to say a single word, your silence is not weakness Frank, your silence is evidence, let it speak.
Sixth, stop falling in love with potential, you are a television professional, you understand production, you know the difference between a pilot episode and a complete series, stop funding pilots that never make it to season two.
Now the most important advice of all.
Come back to television, but not with a quiz show this time, Nigeria has moved past multiple choice questions, we are living in an era of N800 billion missing from FAAC, senators buying tax clearance like recharge cards, a Budget Office that has gone silent on the biggest budget in history, and a government that travels the world giving speeches about transparency while accountability stays at home.
Come back with a current affairs programme, sharp, structured, uncomfortable, the kind of show where powerful people sweat under studio lights and ordinary Nigerians get the questions actually answered, hosted by a man who has already survived two public storms with his dignity completely intact, which means nobody can threaten him, blackmail him, or buy him with a land allocation.
Nigeria needs a broadcaster who has nothing left to lose and everything to say, and after what you have been through Frank, that man is you.
The show writes itself, the audience is already waiting, and this time when you ask the question, we will not be thinking about the money.
We will be thinking about the answer.
Is that your final answer Frank?
Make it count this time.
Roby, listen to me carefully.
Mayowa suing you for N100m is the best thing that has happened to you since this story broke.
You have been the emotional one. The one crying on Daddy Freeze’s podcast. The one going to the airport in two cars to pick up a wife who would not even kiss you. The one sending N200k from N500k gigs.
She just shifted the terrain from emotion to la. And in law, what she did has consequences. She remarried in Texas while your Nigerian marriage was legally intact. That is bigamy. Criminal Code Act, Section 370. That is not your allegation. That is a charge.
You do not need to win the defamation case. You need to file a counter. You need to demand the return of every kobo you sent her for 6 years. You need to let your lawyer do what your heart could not.
She opened the door. Walk through it.
We saw the video, we acted, and here is where things stand.
When (Rhapstar) posted the viral video on 4 April 2026, alleging misconduct by officers from the Satellite Town Division, Lagos, we took the matter seriously and acted immediately.
The DPO and the officers involved were summoned, statements were obtained, and detailed interviews were conducted.
Preliminary findings indicate the incident occurred in May 2025. We are working to obtain additional details directly from the victims, as their accounts are central to the investigation.
This process is not a cover-up; it is a demonstration of accountability.
The Leadership of the Force management team, has emphasized that the rule of law is non-negotiable in the discharge of police duties nationwide. No officer is above accountability, and no incident is too old to investigate. The investigation is ongoing. We will provide regular updates.
To every Nigerian who spoke up, your voice prompted accountability, as it should be.
@ZaraVerse01 Just gave you a follow. I'll go through your previous posts and if I do need a clarification, I hope you'll be kind enough to give me one. Many Thanks
I disagree Andy. Always give them option.
Mama gave us multiple options then too...
Option 1 - Eat what I have and cooked
Option 2 - Sleep hungry.
Option 3 - Go and call the slaves and maids of ponri pongba of your forefathers and father to make another meal for you.
A woman was feeling drowsy while driving home on a quiet highway, so she pulled over, and got out for a walk and some fresh air. When she returned to her car, she was horrified to discover that she had locked her keys inside. She searched her pockets but found nothing to help; no keys; no phone. And not one car had passed along this quiet highway during the 15 minutes that she had pulled over.
Eventually, once she had calmed down, she prayed to the Lord for help. Five minutes later she heard a loud vehicle, and looked up to see a motorcycle so she waved for help.
The motorcyclist was a big bearded man in shades and a bandana, wearing a studded jacket, jeans and heavy black boots. The rider toed down his side-stand, swung his leg off the saddle, and stood up, reaching for a cigarette. He looked at her and growled, “So what’s your story?”
The woman replied, “Oh Thank the Lord you’re here! I’ve locked my keys into my car and all I can do is pray.”
The biker walked up to the car, looked through the window, and sure enough, the keys were hanging in the ignition.
He looked around for something to open the door, and spotted a nearby barbed wire fence.
With some twisting and bending, he managed to break off a piece of wire and with the help of a flattened beer can he inserted the wire next to the window, looped it into the door catch, and opened the lock.
The woman was delighted. She said “Oh thank you, my Lord,for sending me an angel. You are a wonderful man! Thank you so much!”
The biker replied: “Don’t say stuff like that, lady. I’m not a good man. I’ve been a burglar and car thief for most of my life, and only last week got out of jail.”
The woman, still smiling, then exclaimed, “Oh, praise God for
sending a professional!”
Now for those saying we were committing fraudulent activities, just know Nigeria does not commit as much fraud as about 28 other countries. Countries where PayPal still operates.
Let me also add that PayPal contributed to the global perception that Nigerians are frauds. After banning us, these guys were running campaigns telling people to be careful about doing transactions with Nigeria(ns). Check your spam emails from 10-15 years ago, you'd see some of them. Why are you people suddenly so forgetful?