i think what fucks me up so much when it comes to relationships is that being vulnerable feels like peeling back layers of different personas, i feel like even my vulnerability is a performance of vulnerability sometimes
>cis girl friend wants to introduce me to her trans femme friend
>i ask if she's reddit or bpd
>she looks at me confused
>i pull out the chart clearly explaining the differences
>my friend giggles, "She's a catch bestie"
>she's reddit
your friend who doesnt eat enough will always be like "ugh I have such a headache" while they take a sip of some shit called Pure Crank™ and smoke a cigarette
Most political compass tests are stupid and outdated, so I have created a political test that only focuses on REAL ISSUES of the 2020s. 64 questions that score you on four axes, including "Chud v Woke" and "Techbro v Luddite"
Reply with your results & tell me if it was accurate
@7why__ydm I’m dreadfully avoidant but need reassurance. So basically my dream partner is equal parts reaffirming me and ignoring me. I have a very complex relationship with love, both platonic and romantic, and will be anxious about us every day. You will hear about this as well.
Why do we have to do the whole game of flirting, why can’t I just go up to someone and list off my interests and what I am attracted to about them and get the same back. We could just figure out the whole thing right now we don’t need to spend an hour acting at each other before
I never attract people when I am a horny sex creature (even when I’m trying really hard to be normal). It’s only when I’m acting Normal. And I Don’t Like That.