men are becoming too content with being useless. you can't fix shit, can't build shit, don't pay for shit, can't plan any dates.
what are you really here for??
It’s really annoying that we realize children need a summer break and several vacations a year because they attend school, but we think it makes sense for adults to work 40 hours a week all year and probably get 2–3 weeks off in a whole year if you’re lucky.
Sorry if I don't reach out anymore. I'm fighting for my life, second guessing my career path, debating my life choices, scrolling through social media, and sleeping whenever I get free time just to escape reality.
Who else in this weird stage in their life? Drinking isn't fun anymore, relationships don’t work, dating doesn’t exist, work is just a distraction, and friday nights are better spent alone.
I may be single on Valentine’s Day but at least I’m not getting cheated on. At least I’m not being emotionally abused. At least I’m not living in a constant state of flight or fight. At least I’m not being fed lies anymore. At least I’m not in the cycle anymore. A win is a win.
Being exhausted because of depression but can’t sleep because of anxiety is a special kind of torture that drains you silently while the world keeps demanding more.
A man will cheat on you lie to your face as you sob to him, begging him for the truth, lust over other woman, gaslight, and manipulate the absolute fvck out of your love for him, then have audacity to make you feel bad about your consultant trust issues and trauma
things that scare me:
employment
unemployment
getting married
never getting married
having kids
never having kids
falling in love
never falling in love again