Today I have to attend a self employment meeting at Derby job centre instead of my usual one which is 4 minutes drive away. Nobody has acknowledged why I have to attend (I am not self employed) nor why I have to go to Derby. I am angry before I go - what a waste of fuel & time
@AlisonMunday Nobody had cancelled the meeting off from 4 months ago and the text rinder on Sunday was automatic. Also, our postcode now has to attend Derby as Long Eaton branch is at capacity. I told him that they need to put directions on their site.
@AlisonMunday I got lost. The building is impossible to find, so I was late, distressed and in a garage on the main road getting directions when they rang to say that as I work enough hours, I don't have a work coach so nobody gets my journal entries...and I had no appointment.
Even travelling locally, I do all my jobs in one area in the same trip, but there is nothing else to combine this trip with. I only need UC as I cannot afford holiday childcare in order to keep my job without it but they suspend your account if you don't attend these meetings.
And to add insult to injury, it is smack bang in the middle of my only day off this week ( the only communication they replied to was to change the time from 9am. I am good, but even I can't be at school and in Derby at the same time).
I decided to eat properly. After less than a week my whole body feels like it is acidic & nothing relieves it. Yesterday I went back to a bite here and there - I can already feel my stomach pain settling. #dietandnutrition#hiatushernia#stomach
@losingitlaura I think being busy, not having time to think & over think is essential. But I also think some damage is permanent & time will alow us to move on, but always cautiously. Perhaps you should start counselling, seek useful help. I think I should have.
@losingitlaura I am struggling today. Run into my ex twice this week after not, for months. I have been with my fella for 2 years but called him out on something last night. He is upset with me and I have spent all night anticipating being dumped this morning. You need much, much longer
@InnovationMatt I can feel mental health research coming on...as for me, I chose to go back to a customer facing job as I need people. Staying home would drive me crazy.
@InnovationMatt I know someone who is still working from home, as is his partner in a tiny family home. They can't make a cuppa in pj's or lounge in the living room as it means they are background on the other's teams meeting. Life has changed. I will follow this for solutions with interest.