I have a buddy who’s slept with 500+ women.
Before you say “he’s just lucky,” here’s what he told me:
1) He DMs every girl he finds attractive. Instagram, apps, Twitter, wherever. Literally hundreds of shots a day. His success rate is probably under 1%, but nobody outworks him.
2) He infields (approaches) everywhere. Gym. Whole Foods. Coffee shops. Bars. The street. Every errand is an opportunity.
3) He has zero fear of rejection. He’ll get turned down 20 times and still walk over to #21 like nothing happened.
4) He’s never home. You can’t meet women sitting on your couch.
5) He’s always dressed well, works out 5x a week & locked in on his health and diet.
6) He’s probably addicted to sex.
It’s honestly one of the weirdest combinations of discipline and dysfunction I’ve ever seen.
I love him though
Divorce lawyer James Sexton on why modern marriage feels unfair to men.
He says the man is expected to provide financially, protect, and be part of the family, all enforceable by the state. But the woman’s side (love, affection, sex, being a good mother) can’t be forced.
If he fails, he can go to jail. If she fails, nothing.
He told the story of an air traffic controller who lost his high-paying job due to anxiety after his mother died. The court still imputed his old salary for child support, leading to jail time when he couldn’t pay.
What’s your opinion, do you think the legal risks in marriage are unfairly stacked against men?
I don’t think people realize how different life is for the average woman vs. the average man.
An average 5/10 woman can download a dating app tonight and have 1,000+ likes by the weekend. She can get free dinners daily, free drinks, VIP tables, World Cup tickets, boat invites, vacations, and attention without asking.
An above-average 7/10 guy gets a handful of matches a week, has to build a career, stay in shape, make the first move, handle rejection, and still compete with hundreds of other guys.
Women find their casual sex partners WAY MORE attractive than their husbands
I asked 1000s of women & they confirmed this
The short-term guy experiences a greater level of lust, desire, & quality of sex than the long-term guy despite putting in immensely lesser effort
Sometimes I feel like everyone on the internet was just born yesterday. Like.... is it news that women are into men who can protect them?
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I'm 40 years old and just got my DEXA scan results back.
My body fat, lean mass, and bone density are better than 99% of men and I'm NOT natural.
If you see someone claiming better stats than mine while staying "natty," they're lying (THREAD):
You must accept one uncomfortable truth as a man, which is this:
women do not see cheating as the great evil many men imagine it to be. What they fear more is the opinion and judgment that accompany its discovery.
And when they cheat and are caught by their partners, they do not necessarily regret the act itself. After all, had they not been caught, the affair may well have continued. What they regret is the loss of the benefits attached to not being caught.
Therefore, their restraint from such acts is, less a function of internal constitution, principle, or moral ideal than of external constraints. So too is their indulgence.
That is, if she does not cheat, it is not necessarily because she hates the idea of cheating, but because there are external obstacles she has not found a way around. And if she cheats, it is because those obstacles have, for one reason or another, ceased to restrain her.
Which is to say, she is not faithful because opportunity has never presented itself, but because opportunity and circumstance have not yet aligned in her favour.
Now, the point is this: given that sexual immorality is rarely a woman's greatest moral horror, your displeasure at the discovery of her infidelity may not be met with the degree of remorse or understanding you expect.
"It's not what you think."
"You're punishing me."
"You're overreacting."
These may well be the words of someone who has offended you on a level you consider beyond forgiveness, yet does not perceive the offence with the same gravity.
Why?
Because, women do not principally hate infidelity itself. They fear the magnitude of the social backlash and judgment that accompany its exposure.
Again, as I always say, do not take my word for it. Ask yourself why women celebrate Chike and villainise Ugo.
But then, the message is this:
When your woman cheats and begs for forgiveness, it may not be because she regrets sleeping with another man. It may be because she fears losing the relationship, the marriage, the security, the benefits attached to it, and the public opinion that once stood in her favour.
And I believe I have said enough.
Goodluck. Or congratulations.
Two key takeaways so far:
1-You want to make yourself a high status man. This excites women
2-But whatever your status, if you start chasing her more than she chases you, she’ll start to all of a sudden feel that your status is lower than hers, and this will dry out her pussy
It’s unfortunate but some girls are dead inside. (Ex:1000 Cock Stare)
Due to repetitive bad decision making, sex, drugs, alcohol they're fucked out.
Literally all of their femininity, kindness, caring, and openness has been FUCKED right out of them.
Avoid.
#1 Rule: Do Not be BORING!
Sluts will forgive you for EVERY indiscretion including fucking her sister in front of her as long as you’re NOT BORING.
They’ll TELL YOU THIS THEMSELVES!
Give them the Asshole Game they crave.
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My brain is my most valuable asset & here is everything I use to keep it sharper than ever at 40:
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My stepdad has been caring for his mother, who's been fighting Alzheimer's and dementia, for years.
She looks at her own son and sees her dead husband.
Lifespan means nothing without this one thing:
I’ll be telling people all 2026:
Once you swap Deadlifts out for these….
- Your Lower Back will feel better than ever before
- Your Glutes/Hamstrings will be the most developed they’ve ever been
- It’ll be much easier for you to recover
It’s honestly a NO-BRAINER DECISION
How to tell when a relationship is cooked:
• he likes her way more than she likes him
• she’s getting hotter while he’s getting fatter
• sex starts feeling like a chore
• she talks to you like you’re in HR
• “girls nights” suddenly become every weekend
• you start getting the “sorry fell asleep” texts
• she becomes “too busy” to see you
• her phone is suddenly always face down or on do not disturb
The “guy has to like the girl more” thing makes zero sense long term because eventually she just gets bored. Women have 100x more options as men (doesn’t mean high quality, but they are always there)
Women are addicted to the chase way more than men are. The second she fully feels like she has you locked in, that’s when the “sorry fell asleep” texts start, sex drops from 3x a week to once every 11 days, and suddenly she’s “so busy” every weekend.
A girl who genuinely likes you more will move mountains to see you.
A guy who likes the girl more just ends up overanalyzing why she replied “haha” instead of “hahaha.”
Ancient relationship philosophy… come on Raq!