My therapist told me no one tells anyone how hard it is to rewire your brain to allow good things to happen after experiencing so much trauma or pain. Blessings exist, good people exist & a softer life exists. Let it happen.
I want to leave Matthew Perry’s own words here as the way we remember him. There will never be another like him- he lit up so many hearts in so many ways. Godspeed to Paradise!
serious question... how do people have so many friends. like even the casual ones, how do you maintain them all... because if i died literally maybe 2 friends would show up to my FUNERAL yet you have 15 showing up to your BIRTHDAY DINNER. wow let me just-
When you grow up in chaos, hurt, and betrayal it becomes your comfort. It feels normal. The subconscious mind works to re-create these same dynamics in your adult life. Peace and calm feels boring until you teach yourself it’s safe.