Never outshine people who have the authority to punish your brilliance. Talent without political sense becomes a threat, and threats get managed. Let insecure people feel taller while you build quietly. The goal is not to look superior in the moment. The goal is to keep rising.
If you want something, you can't be docile about it. You have to want to get it. You must have that inner desire to get it, and you must be very fierce about it. The world will not easily let you have it if you are too submissive about it. You have to be very extremely aggressive and it has to be in your nature to snatch it.
Ukiwa in the trenches, your 'poverty' subconscious inakuwanga na calculator on standby haha
Ukijaribu kuji treat hivi kidogo nerves za umaskini zina release resentment & self loathe
Nyasachiel kama kuna mahali sitamani kurudi ni trenches, I saw bad things over there in Kibera.
To rise, you must endure boredom, resistance, and the pain of slow progress. Human nature craves shortcuts, but discipline ignores them. Self-mastery is the ability to walk the long road while others chase illusions, arriving strong where they collapse.
Never reveal the full extent of your resources or capabilities; a man whose strength is fully measured can be planned against, but a man with unknown reserves forces caution, making every move against him feel like a gamble with potentially ruinous consequences.
If you make a show of going against the times, flaunting your unconventional ideas and unorthodox ways, people will think that you only want attention and that you look down upon them.
They will find a way to punish you for making them feel inferior. It is far safer to blend in and nurture the common touch.
Share your originality only with tolerant friends and those who are sure to appreciate your uniqueness.
Some people in your life have never seen you at your full capacity. They met you in a hard season, a transitional moment, a version of you still being built. Do not let their limited experience of you become your ceiling. You are more than the chapter they witnessed.
all roads lead you back to yourself. to the standards you ignored, the boundaries you softened, the intuition you didn’t trust. life keeps repeating lessons until you finally listen, learn and become a better version of yourself.
Men,
Sexual energy is powerful.
But energy without direction becomes destruction.
Build something:
• Learn a skill.
• Read a book.
• Start a business.
• Train your body.
The goal is not just to avoid pleasure,
The goal is to CREATE VALUE.
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Men,
Learn to thrive and survive alone,
People will abandon you,
Your woman will abandon you,
But your spirit will NOT,
But your inner strength will NOT.
Be your own anchor.
YOU ARE A MAN
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Most people turn against you because your existence became an uncomfortable comparison. The disciplined man, the calm man, the man whose life is clearly moving somewhere, quietly exposes how much of their own stagnation was a choice, and very few people forgive a mirror that arrives without asking permission.
I have some advice for young men newly employed,
When you get employed:
• Be grateful to God, your parents, your mentors and your boss for this opportunity
• Work hard
• Respect your employer
• Adhere to your employer's rules and protocols
• Embrace the mission and vision of the employer
However, if working for your employer becomes unbearable due to other reasons,
• Quit respectfully
• Follow the procedures of quitting as written in your contract or employment letter
• Return your employer's resources in your custody
• Handover politely and thank your employer for giving you an opportunity
• Leave with a clean conscience
Don't be chaotic, abusive and contemptuous on your way out.
Don't think you are smarter than your employer.
The employer you are disrespecting gave you a livelihood when you were seeking a footing and direction.
The employer may not have paid you to your satisfaction, but be polite.
Don't go bad mouthing your employer, speaking nastily, and broadcasting your foul mouth while disclosing what is considered private policies, programs, products or services of your former workplace.
Leave courteously.
This way, you open room for better opportunities, newer networks and better leverage.
Don't be a rude employee. Other employers will fear giving you opportunities in the future because they don't trust you.
Be courteous when you close the door behind you, the universe will be kind to you on your way out.
Put yourself in situations where you have too much at stake to waste time or resources—if you cannot afford to lose, you won’t. Place yourself on “death ground,” where your back is against the wall and you have to fight like hell to get out alive.
No matter how much potential you have, if you don’t fully lock in and take charge of your life, you’ll eventually end up as the guy who had potential but nothing to show for it.
People with HIGH STANDARDS gatekeep their personality. once they see malicious intent, their energy shifts permanently. they don’t argue, they don’t explain, they just remove access.
You’re scared to start because you might not get the support you need. My dad always says nunua gari, ikikwama kwa matope utaita watu waskume. But you can’t start telling people to get prepared to push a car that doesn’t exist. We anza, the way becomes clearer as you go.