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[ajay patel @ajaycan]

That statement — *"sex is nervous system coregulation and if you think about that a little bit you'll be a hell of a lot better at it"* — is actually quite profound, both biologically and emotionally.

Here’s a breakdown in simple terms:

### What it means:

* **Nervous system coregulation** happens when two people *subconsciously help each other's nervous systems feel safe, calm, and connected*.
* In sex, it's not just about physical actions — it’s about *emotional attunement, presence, and mutual regulation*.
* When both partners feel **safe, seen, and synchronized**, the experience becomes much more fulfilling.

### Simple analogy:

Think of two musicians playing jazz together. If they’re not in sync, it’s noise. But if they listen, adjust, and feel each other's rhythm — *they create magic*. Sex is like that: attunement creates harmony.

### So, how does this insight make someone better at it?

Because it shifts the focus from **performance** to **connection**. When you tune into your partner’s breath, body, tension, or comfort level — and respond with care — you regulate each other’s nervous systems. That deepens intimacy, trust, and pleasure.

[James Lucas @JamesLucasIT]

Thread of the world's most beautiful towns and villages at Christmas 🧵

1. Locorotondo, Italy

[ceili @almondpastries]

another day as a big girl with a big girl job https://t.co/zI5NgzEpZk

[Whats up with the world @Kate60614516]

@zunguzungu What are the odds that this might have been funded by the US… like omg? What is going on🫣🤨

[Whats up with the world @Kate60614516]

@Reuters Is that like bad bad?

[Whats up with the world @Kate60614516]

@WSJ I feel like this one is going to be a real b*tch…

[Whats up with the world @Kate60614516]

@davidleavitt For like the first of this video I thought this was just old Black Friday videos lol. Like people used to go feral

[Whats up with the world @Kate60614516]

@gh0sst1n I love this, I feel like this is a moment that will go down in history lmfao…

[Latest in space @latestinspace]

NEWS 🚨: NASA's James Webb telescope has just dropped a new image of the famous Ring Nebula

[Whats up with the world @Kate60614516]

@WSJ I thought this was an article from the Onion at first…

[Whats up with the world @Kate60614516]

@wildtiktokss “Good” a guy said that to me when I told him I just got out of the hospital after a full day on the trauma floor bc of a bike accident I almost died from… I can assure you it’s the worst

[Whats up with the world @Kate60614516]

@chaosexist @JAYVERSACE I have been taking both in the morning… what is the benefit of taking magnesium at night?

[Whats up with the world @Kate60614516]

@Dexerto Netflix saw their opportunity and took it, kind of respect the hustle tbh I do want to watch titanic again

[Whats up with the world @Kate60614516]

@DavidZipper Got a speeding ticket a couple weeks ago… I thought $260 was bad

[Whats up with the world @Kate60614516]

@blaireerskine Ok, and where is the edge🙄 where does the weather stop if it’s not a continuous cycle

[Whats up with the world @Kate60614516]

@blkcreatives @itsgabrielleu @KirkWrites79 She is so real for that lmfao sounds like my kind of night

[Whats up with the world @Kate60614516]

@SaeedDiCaprio Ok but can we talk about how cute the jellyfish is🥺🥹

[Whats up with the world @Kate60614516]

@TheOnion The Onion just needs to pin this tweet, it’s not like it could apply to pretty much any day now😔

[Whats up with the world @Kate60614516]

@xo_Ecstasy @can1getawitness @dbishopii @Theonlystowie @cal_gif I’m sure you’re fun at a party🤨 guitar lady made this all happen for social media… they don’t have to say anything if they don’t want to. Just like you could have said nothing, but chose not to