God all I need for New year is a laptop and enough funds to complete my workshop. God I know there's nothing you can't do, kindly run am for me 🙏. I tweet this with Faith 🙏🙌📖
Alhamdulillah, my husband and I have been blessed with a baby girl! May Allah protect her, bless her and guide her always. ❤️
Mom, dad and big sis are all doing great.
Now a family of 4! 🥳✨
When you go into a lady's DM and you introduce yourself properly and than she responds properly.
Please do not indulge her with excessive texting.
Many ladies do not know how to express themselves in writing.
Politely ask for her phone number and ask if you can call her.
If she obliges you, give her a call and speak like a mature man and engage her in conversations that are healthy and polite.
Do not start going to her WhatsApp to chat with her because you have her number.
Call her like 3 more times and ensure that the calls last at least 5-10 minutes each time.
Then ask her for a date and a convienient time that both of you can meet.
Do not start inviting her to your house.
Once she agrees to a date, prepare for it, look good and smell good.
Then go for your date.
Ensure that you pay for whatever both of you consume on that date.
Then part ways respectfully.
Do not try to give her a hug and avoid unnecessary touching.
Tell her thank you for honoring your invitation for a date and go home.
Give it time, and call her one more time to ensure that she arrived safe.
Then don't call her again.
Don't even text her.
If she's interested in seeing you again, she'll be the one to reach out.
A mature lady will even call you and spend some time on the call with you.
If that happens, ask her for another date.
Then on the second date, you can then ask her to be your girlfriend and tell her who you think she is the one you wish to try with.
If she doesn't give you any response (positive or negative), don't push it.
After the date, repeat the same thing by calling her to know if she arrived safely.
Then call her another day to ask her if she has given your request a thought.
If she is still not forthcoming, quietly block her in your mind and move on to the next avaliable woman.
She doesn't have any receipts of you asking her out in a chat.
Do not call her again, even if you truly like her.
If she likes you, she'll be the one to start initiating calls, texts and meet ups.
AJD.
A lot of you will misunderstand this thread, so let me say it carefully.
But I don't care because it's not the first time that I will be talking about it.
This time, I want to be more detailed on it.
A man who has long left the university environment and fully entered working life should think twice before dating a university girl.
And this is not primarily about age.
I want to take age out of the discussion for the purpose of this message.
But a man MUST be older than his wife.
It is about life stage.
A working man wakes up thinking about rent, deadlines, promotions, taxes, family obligations and long-term plans.
A university girl wakes up thinking about assignments, exams, projects, hostel issues and graduation.
Nobody is wrong.
They are simply carrying different burdens.
One is building a life.
The other is building the foundation for one.
And that difference matters.
People connect most naturally when they are solving similar life problems and carrying similar responsibilities.
There is a reason classmates often date classmates.
There is a reason colleagues often date colleagues.
Similar life realities create natural understanding.
University life is also a season of discovery.
Priorities change.
Ambitions change.
Worldviews change.
And please note, this is not a flaw.
It's a form of growth.
Then there is the question of power.
The man often has more resources.
The girl often has fewer or none.
What begins as a relationship can slowly begin to look like sponsorship.
And this is mostly going to be the case.
And once dependence enters the room, honesty sometimes leaves through the back door.
And that's why cheating is more prevalent in such relationships.
A healthy relationship requires freedom.
Freedom to disagree.
Freedom to speak honestly.
Freedom to walk away if necessary.
Because she is not mostly dependent on you for survival.
Another truth many people resist is that university life is one of the most transformative seasons in a person's life.
The person you meet today may not be the person you meet at graduation.
Growth has a way of changing people.
And it's perfectly normal.
Can such relationships work?
Of course.
Some do.
But like I always say; do not pray to be the exception because that exception may not be you.
Wisdom is not only asking what is possible.
Wisdom is also asking what is probable.
Let me make something clear:
Do not date someone simply because they are attractive. Date someone because your journeys can travel in the same direction at a point in time.
Beauty may attract.
Chemistry may excite.
Intimacy may be excellent.
But similar life stages often sustain a relationship.
So, that's why I said sometimes the issue is not age.
Because a young man of 26 may have graduated at the age of 21, and a young girl of 24 can still be a 100 level university student.
Sometimes the issue is timing.
And that timing can be the difference between a relationship that struggles and one that thrives.
If you don't understand this thread, go and smoke igbo.
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A young girl hawking in a market in Aba comes to announce to her regular customers that school is about to resume, so they may no longer see her selling there. She tells them that her mother will be taking over from her and pleads with them to continue patronising her mother.
good morning everyone,I don't know where to start I'm in really in need of help sir,it's my Mom pls help me save her,she's the only parent I have.She's in the hospital battling for her life doctor is demanding for the remaining balance to be able to continue her treatment.Plshelp
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Back to the topic of infertility.
A married man is in a state of confusion/joy.
He has been married for 8 years with no child.
He's 44 and his wife is 37.
His wife's younger sister (29) is pregnant for him. They have been having a secret affair for over 7 months.
She wants to terminate the pregnancy but he doesn't want that. He is insisting that he will marry her since all he did was traditional wedding, it will not be a crime of bigamy if he marries her.
The parents of the wife are late.
The young woman is almost 2 months pregnant and the man wants to have his own biological child.
He wants to tell his wife and apologise to her, but her sister has left their house to somewhere else because she cannot stand the shame and betrayal.
He's also threatening to arrest her if anything happens to the pregnancy. His wife has suffered more than one miscarriage in their 8 years of marriage.
So this is not a case of both of them having fertility issues. It's just unfortunate that the pregnacies have not been carried to term.
The wife is the first daughter and first child. And she has just one brother that her husband pays his school fees.
He wants to know if his decision to tell his wife and marry her younger sister is a good decision.
I have only replied him with "Hmmmmm".
AJD.
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Over 30 young boys were arrested in Niger and locked in an overcrowded, unventilated cell with extreme heat by @official_NSCDC. They reportedly banged on the door and were ignored.
They were all found dead. Suffocated to dèath. By NSCDC. 💔
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Hello Everyone.
Meet Mrs Glory Shode she is a retired teacher who served for 33 years. She used her entire gratuity to start building a small 2-bedroom in Ibadan which she couldn't complete.
Now as their rent has expired she and her daughter are at risk of becoming homeless.