This chapter is called Self-Respect. You stress me, i disappear. You show fake support, i distance myself. You disrupt my peace, i block access. You underestimate my growth, i move in silence.
You cross boundaries, i cut ties.
You are admired only when you win. Until then, you are tolerated at best, mocked at worst, and invisible in between. This is the law of existence: success or contempt. The world does not pity the unsuccessful man, it condemns him.
Be so naturally good. Be so fucking competent. Be so exceptional in every domain of human performance that people have no option than to admire you, envy you or be magnetically attracted to you.
One thing about kujituma and having a great work ethic is that the universe has no choice but to respect the effort. So things will fall into place, it’s only a matter of time ✨
Staying single when you know you can’t provide is one of the smartest decisions you can make as a man rathan than marrying and leave family in trenches.
If you choose to marry a church lady it's upto yu bro. If you also choose to marry a drug lady is all up to u. Either way if you choose to marry is entirely upto u 😂
We are slowly walking into a dangerous future that many people are refusing to acknowledge.
If things continue the way they are, schools will become more chaotic, communities more unstable, and we will start seeing more teenagers getting involved in crime, violence, drug abuse, and reckless behavior at levels we are not prepared for as a country.
Parenting is collapsing in many homes. Some parents are too absent, too overwhelmed, or have surrendered the role of raising children to phones, schools, and the internet.
At the same time, our education system is struggling to shape character, discipline, emotional intelligence, and critical thinking beyond just exams and grades.
Then add the drug problem into the mix. Drugs are becoming more accessible within estates, neighborhoods, and even around schools. Young people are experimenting earlier, addiction is increasing silently, and many are growing up without proper guidance, mentorship, or emotional support systems.
Now combine that with excessive screentime, social media addiction, exposure to harmful content, short attention spans, online radicalization, and the normalization of aggression and disrespect online.
You end up creating a generation that is emotionally overstimulated, mentally exhausted, easily influenced, and increasingly disconnected from reality.
That combination is a ticking time bomb.
A society cannot survive when children grow up without structure, discipline, purpose, values, or present adults guiding them. If parents do not reclaim their responsibility, if schools continue weakening, if mental health remains ignored, and if drugs continue flooding the streets, then the consequences will not just be felt in homes. They will be felt in classrooms, neighborhoods, workplaces, and across the entire country.
The warning signs are already here. The patterns have already formed. Kenya must stop treating this as a small issue before we raise a generation that is angry, lost, addicted, and difficult to control.