"sleep training" a newborn means letting a defenseless baby scream for its mother in the dark until it's either exhausted or has given up on life.
the attachment literature is clear that before 6 months, a baby crying with nobody coming learns exactly one thing, that calling for help doesn't work
and you even have parents bragging about how they tortured their kid into an 8h sleep
you need to attend to every need of your child. they don't have a prefrontal cortex able to understand what's happening. if you love them and care for them, they'll barely cry, and when they do there's a clear reason you can address right away
@realEstateTrent On a $500k house that's only $500 a month out of the total $3500 payment. Barely moves the needle either way. Most is interest...and that's only 5% rate. Rest is taxes and insurance.
Quite the opposite
In fact, most men in this situation—truly in this situation—would take on the entire world for you
If you love a man, a good man, if you really love him, if you care for him, if you become his peace, his rock, and support his ambitions in a world that from all directions wants him enslaved or dead, that cares for him so little and hates him so much for being who he is, to a degree most will never truly understand—
He will take on the entire world for you. He will fight demons for you. You will be his reason to take on the world, and win. You’ll be his reason that there isn’t any other choice
This is a lie
after this, I will shut up. just please:
put yourself in the shoes of a customer that:
- bought Model S/X in 2022/2023 (~$140k for a Plaid), or even 3/Y at ~$60-75k
- paid an additional $15k for FSD (12 ½ years worth of subscription at current pricing)
- doesn't have access to latest FSD versions because HW3 (missed cutoff point by a few months)
- can't justify upgrading to HW4 because they’re deeply underwater on their current car
- see $15k FSD purchase option drop by nearly half, even though Tesla said it was only going to get more expensive
- see a great deal on a Cybertruck with "Free FSD Transfer for loyal customers!" advertised right below the Order button. press "Order."
- aren’t chronically online, so miss Tesla quietly changing the terms retroactively
- show up (or are about to show up) for delivery in June only to be told “sorry, we’re not honoring that”
- then went online to figure out what happened… and got hit with “stop wanting things for free!”
these customers exist, and will never buy another Tesla again.