Years ago, when I moved to NYC in my late 20s, I noticed how everyone looked good. Their style was awesome. People were in shape.
I knew I wanted to learn how to dress better and to get in shape. There was a gym 1 block away from my apartment and I started telling myself I should hire a trainer.
I had the time and the money. But it still took me over 4 months to walk into the gym and hire a trainer. Why?
I was reminded of this when I read today's comments about a multi-millionaire who wanted a nice car but couldn't bring himself to spend money on it.
I really love this comment.
Once you experience things like a beautiful car, or high-end clothes, or business-class seats, it's much easier to "get it."
But the key question is this: How do you get someone to actually take a ride in that car?
Or in my case, walk into the gym?
I hesitated for months because I knew that once I signed up and hired a trainer, I was making a long commitment to change myself. It wasn't about the money or time. It was about changing my identity.
That's why a frugal person spending money on things they love is so hard. It's not about the money. Showing them a math equation won't change a thing. It's about changing the entire way they regard money and, ultimately, themselves.
Well if nothing else the Supreme Court ruling is gonna humble some white and Asian students when they find out they still didn’t get in to their dream school and it wasn’t the fault of already underrepresented Black applicants.
Dying in an ocean as deep as your pockets…in a vessel as tiny as the shanty houses you turned your noses up at….In a darkness as expansive as your ego…going to see the final resting place of the souls whom you disturbed with your curiosity, but they still eagerly welcomed you.
last night’s Succession continues to prove that the binge model is a joke and nothing will top seeing a monumental moment in tv history live where you talked about it endlessly with no idea how the rest of the series will be impacted by the episode’s actions
I do not have the energy or desire to have to compete to purchase any item.
Whether its concert tickets, sneakers, etc. If me simply having the cash isn't good enough it just won't be had.
A very useful thing you can do for your career is to not reflexively buy into the lie that caring about money means that you are a mercenary, not mission-focused, not a culture fit. Recognize that you’ve been manipulated into that lie by the very people who care a lot about money
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