A narcissist hits you with shame, false promises, accusations, isolation, manipulation, control, slander, games, silence, the past, the mask, betrayal, gaslighting, lies, abandonment, insecurities, and criticism, then claims they did nothing to you.
You know what's attractive? A genuine man who's consistent, dominant but have soft spot only for you. A man who admits he wants you and doesn't leave you insecure, confused and unloved.
Emotionally unavailable people will ruin you. Stay away from people that are nonchalant & lack affection and compassion, especially if you’re a very loving person.
When a man is gentle, soft, and consistently respects you, that's when your nervous system starts healing. That's why some women have that special glow when they're being loved right in a relationship. It's not the love itself, it's the emotional safety.🖤