LASEA B

diary of a mad black woman

[ti chokola ki bon nan dyol @doubleed_]

Going no contact with your parent will make you realize you can just about live this life without a lot of people

[Emmy 🦋 @emmyxtweets]

You don’t need to be chosen by them. You need to meet yourself more deeply and understand why you were willing to stay attached to something that felt intense but wasn’t truly aligned with you. Low compatibility with high chemistry is one of life’s fastest lessons in self worth. Because chemistry can make you overlook the things that don’t work. It can make inconsistency feel exciting, uncertainty feel like passion and potential feel like a future. But strong feelings don’t automatically mean someone is right for you. Sometimes the person who gives you the strongest butterflies is also the person who teaches you the hardest lesson: you can deeply desire someone and still choose not to abandon yourself for them. The lesson isn’t to stop wanting love. It’s to stop confusing intensity with alignment. You don’t need them to choose you. You need to choose yourself deeply enough that chemistry is no longer enough to make you ignore incompatibility.

[Ryan Daigler - Exposing Narcissistic Abuse 🚩🚩 @Ryan_Daigler]

A narcissist’s envy is really quite creepy and disturbing.
They fixate on you like they want to be you, but at the same time they want everyone else to hate you, so they tell lies about you and they convince even themselves you’re a bad person so that they can mimic you or take your aura while convincing themselves they are the original.

Like…what the unholy fuck?

[Essential Mastery @EssentialMastry]

“The man who can walk away from what he desires, for the sake of what he must become, is a man no one can own.”

- Epictetus

[LASEA B @LASEA777]

Convinced tf outta me

[Kalbim kırık @TLoverot]

Sana bütün ömrümce aşık olurdum ama bir eylül gecesi, senin için yaptığım hiçbir şeyin değmeyeceğine beni ikna ettin

[Sheila of the Most High @sheilatebra]

Destiny swapping is so scary. Someone just becomes jealous or infatuated with you and BOOM they wanna be you. & even when you try to avoid and detach yourself from them somehow they are somewhere still spiritually pulling on your energy and siphoning from you. Stalking, copying, trying to gain proximity in any way even if it’s negative, trying to destroy you, even going as far as doing spell work against you, your beauty, your relationships and finances. & all you did was exist

[LASEA B @LASEA777]

At the end of the day you just are what you repeatedly do

[Emmy 🦋 @emmyxtweets]

I believe people’s actions can tell you everything their words try to hide. Someone can tell you they respect, value and care about you, but if their behaviour repeatedly shows a lack of consideration, believe what you’re being shown. You don’t have to keep searching for explanations or convincing yourself that their intentions are different from their behaviour. When someone consistently treats you like you don’t matter, take it for what it is. Words can say anything. Actions reveal what someone truly values. Pay attention to what they do.

[hayati 👩🏻‍❤️‍💋‍👩🏻 @hayatifag]

the unfortunate part about repressing traumatic memories so you don’t have to deal with them is eventually you have to deal with them but now the memories are so hazy that you cant remember exactly happened and that on its own will haunt you

[ń . @____damned]

you’re the only home you’ll ever know. decorate yourself with love and compassion, furnish yourself with inner learning, declutter yourself with reflection, and don’t let the dust of routine pile up on your soul. let your own heartbeat be the soulful music that fills every room .

[LASEA B @LASEA777]

A bubble bath and some wine

[LASEA B @LASEA777]

Af tho. But I hate when people don’t let me take up space #wholeperson

[✩ sarah @wetneptune]

fixed signs (aquarius, scorpio, leo, taurus)

[Dr. Thema @drthema]

May you heal from the things that robbed you of the confidence to trust your inner wisdom, internal compass, the still small voice within. Listen…

[Karun Pal @karunpal]

Intelligent people struggle with addiction. Their minds need more. More depth. More to disappear into. They have obsessions nobody around them shares. Philosophy. Literature. Astronomy. Documentaries. Quantum physics. Dostoevsky. Kant. Books, music, films, ideas they've gone so deep into that ordinary conversation starts to feel like small talk. And small talk feels like suffocation. So... they drink. Work until 2 am. Doomscroll until they feel nothing. Because there is a gap between who you are and the conversations available to you. And sometimes, that gap becomes unbearable. And it's one of the loneliest places a person can live.

[Ryan Daigler - Exposing Narcissistic Abuse 🚩🚩 @Ryan_Daigler]

When a narcissist starts behaving cheerfully and nice to you, that’s a HUGE red flag they have already done something to you behind your back

[Ryan Daigler - Exposing Narcissistic Abuse 🚩🚩 @Ryan_Daigler]

Narcissists believe they can author your identity—who you are, what you feel, what you said, what your intentions are, what your worth is.
They don’t just want control over your emotions; they want control over your character and public image.
That’s why they:
-Tell you who you “really are”
-Rewrite your character
-Redefine your emotions for you
-Assign you roles (villain, burden, unstable, selfish, etc.)
-Act like their interpretation is more real than your lived experience

It’s psychological colonization. If they can define you, they own you.
And when you refuse that—when you think for yourself and ignore their twisted fantasy—it destabilizes them. That’s why they escalate, smear, gaslight, or rage. You’re removing their perceived authority over reality.

[Principal⭐️ @OkadikeOnyeisi]

The most dangerous form of self abandonment is when you become so accustomed to swallowing your pain that you mistake silence for peace. Resentment is often the voice of every boundary you betrayed just to keep someone else comfortable. Eventually, you realize you weren’t preserving the relationship you were slowly losing yourself.

[Kingdom👑 @Kings1627796]

The toughest problem to accept in a narcissistic relationship is: The memories were fake. The entire relationship was fake. The narcissist pretended to be the victim’s soulmate in order to gain trust and loyalty from the victim. By the time the victim realizes this, the damage is done...

[kemi @kemimarie]

bc their parents were like that, that’s what they respond to. exhausting