How is this speech related to wedding day!!!!
It's a damn wedding not melad or mother's day
Let the bride and groom enjoy their day!!!!
Feeling really sad for poor bride,phly hi trailer dikha dia hy
Also ... is it just me or is your X algo / timeline insanely sensitive to the slightest post you click on?
Makes me not want to open things because I instantly see like a slew of posts about that 1 thing immediately.. ruins the whole experience
'sappnin here @nikitabier@elonmusk ?
Isn’t it strange how these lot all claim to have had the same shared experience of this supposed “empty chair” at Mawlid mehfils yet those of us who actively try to attend Mawlids are yet to see such a thing?
I try to avoid long posts but I guess I have to enter this bag again whilst I’ve got the time.
1. If you are not married, or have never been married - what is the point of throwing out an arbitrary, meaningless number if you’ve not lived the experience?
2. A number, whether incredibly high or low, is meaningless without a clear understanding between the married people about three things: needs, wants/desires and goals. They are all separate things.
3. Your earning capacity will never be the same at any given moment, you must understand the concept of rizq and actually money may not be your rizq, you might be blessed with an incredible spouse - which IS a form of rizq.
4. And probably the most serious - discouraging or encouraging the delay of marriage in the public realm is something that you should be cognizant of as it is a clear contravention of what is taught to us.
•Surah An-Nur (24:32): “Marry the unmarried among you… If they are poor, Allah will enrich them from His bounty.” When your Lord has promised you provision, how can you delay something? Fear Allah for such words can sway your scale on the day of judgement.
5. Men who are married/have been married/in the process of getting married - it is and will always be YOUR job to go out and work hard, have tawakkul, start a business alongside your career and BUILD. The Barakah IN your money significantly outweighs the amount of money you make. Find a woman that will observe the household and bear your children - my opinion is that women should avoid going to work if they do not need to. I understand circumstances CAN vary - may Allah make grant those striving for such a set up with haste.
6. Constantly ask your Lord to enrich you - sustenance comes from Allah, not from a bunch of random folk conditionalising and hyper-analyzing every tenet that can influence a marriage having never walked the path.
Streamline where you consume your information from. X is generally a place for terrible takes in my opinion.
May Allah SWT grant us all hidayah.
If you give a £50 note to a butcher, who then buys from the baker, who then buys from the candlestick maker, it’s worth £50 to each of them, and after 50 transactions it’s still worth £50
If you pay by card, the bank takes 1.5%, 3% or even 5%. The butcher, baker and candlestick maker all have to pay the bank for the privilege of transacting, and by 50 transactions…
The bank has the whole £50 in fees.
This is the real reason they want a cashless society.
Cash is freedom, but it’s also trillions the banks can NOT take from you
I don't think people really understand what they're walking past when they sleep through the last 10 nights. You're not just missing extra worship. You're missing the night your entire year gets rewritten. One night worth more than a 1000 months of grinding. That's 83 years of effort collapsed into hours. The angels descending. Your du'as stamped. Your past erased if you want it erased. And most people treat it like optional bonus content. They'll wake up for a flight. They'll stay up for a deadline. But Laylatul Qadr? "I'm tired." You're not tired. You're not convinced it's real. Because if you really believed one night could change everything, you'd already be in sujood.