just because you haven’t seen someone’s sensitivity and gentleness, it doesn’t mean that they aren’t either of those things. it doesn’t mean they are perpetually stoic, or unfeeling. it means you have not earned trust to witness this side of some people yet.
if you don’t have a wife, husband or kids I promise you need to make the most selfish decisions now while you can I ain’t realize how much of a privilege it is to be spontaneous af
i’m on the hunt for a partner who LOOKS like they will ruin my life but they won’t actually. inSTEAD they are the softest most considerate and loyal lover on planet earth. yes.