Whenever I get to know someone who seems perfect, I end up disappointed. Whenever I get to know someone who I think is the worst of the worst, I'm pleasantly surprised. Angels and demons aren't real.
The reaction someone has when you share something you worked on says a lot about the culture
1/ wait...why wasn't I included earlier? who told you to work on this?
2/ woah...this is awesome! thanks for tackling. can i help?