I don't know who needs to hear this, but start living. The days are flying by, and all you do is work, pay bills, and stress.
Enjoy what you can-walks, sunsets, music, laughter, and nature. Joy doesn't have to be expensive. You deserve it.
Quentin Tarantino on why Top Gun is gay:
“You’ve got Maverick, all right? He’s on the edge, man. And you’ve got Iceman, and all his crew. They’re gay, they represent the gay man, all right? And they’re saying, go the gay way.“
“Kelly McGillis, she’s heterosexuality. She’s saying: no, no, no, no, no, no, go the normal way, play by the rules, go the normal way.
“She’s in the elevator, she is dressed like a guy. She’s got the cap on, she’s got the aviator glasses, she’s wearing the same jacket that the Iceman wears.”
“She is, okay, this is how I gotta get this guy, this guy’s going towards the gay way, I gotta bring him back, I gotta bring him back from the gay way, so I’m do that through subterfuge, I’m gonna dress like a man. All right? That is how she approaches it.”
I live in Rio and actually seen this girl at the beach in copacabana. She is fairly attractive and you can tell she works out.
Even then, there is no sense of urgency to take her serious because there are just so many Brazilian women that outrank her. Attractive tourist in Brazil get pumped and dumped.