Become dangerously educated. Be well-learned. Be harder to fool, sharper in conversation, and better at reading situations. Draw on centuries of knowledge and wisdom. Learn relentlessly. An informed mind is hard to manipulate, intimidate, or contain.
All women are not "nurturers" or "caregivers." Some of us just want to make money, travel, do skincare, read books, and partake in ADULT relationships that don't require copious amounts of caregiving-adjacent emotional labor. One day, people will learn this.
Cleaning your house is the most underrated form of exorcism. dont let anybody fool you into thinking that dirt and grime and old rotting energy isnt real, its fucking real. you never see those people with those haunted tortured eyes and a sparkling clean house, you just dont. those two things do not exist together, because when you purge your space what youre really doing is taking out the trash in your mind. with each grease stain you find a disgusting thought or feeling lurking and you bleach the shit out of that thing like its the devil himself. maybe if you let the mold grow in your corner its growing in your heart too, you better believe that. so clean like Jesus himself is coming over for dinner
i think one of the most romantic things about being alive is that another person can alter the architecture of your life so completely that new versions of you begin to exist. not every part of you is waiting to be uncovered. some are formed through being known by someone else
Introverts have a gift of knowing shit without a word being spoke because we are psychoanalytic, meaning that we analyze situations & people extensively, looking for defects in their character, therefore when you tell a introvert something, that shit better add up before we start calculating to find the real problem. Which is why we embrace being alone so much, not because we’re ”better,” but because we know that 90% of the people we encounter ain’t worth a damn due to social & mental programming. This exactly why we stray away from small talk about mundane things. Small talk & socializing about low vibrational topics is so energy draining to us which is why a truly aligned introvert will cancel plans on your ass just to vibe alone instead of being in a room full of people who are mentally & spiritually dead talking about nothing.
What does the human species actually want? To be capable of such cruelty on one hand and to carry hope of finding your family through decades and still remain sane- on the other. #HishamMatar#TheReturn
Chosen Ones do not fit in. They have a world of their own. A world of quiet contemplation. Silence & deep reflection. Filled with meaning, purpose, creation, & self-exploration. And just being alone enjoying their own company. Not because they are anti-social, arrogant, conceited, or stuck-up, but because they don't need people to feel fulfilled or validated. We have the ability to draw an extensive amount of attention but naturally we don’t want it.